Do you have a bad environment at your Home?

[UltimateGohan]

Clearly my home is the most screwed up place i could be. My parents keep fighting each other (not physically) and they let out their anger by scolding me for pointless things. I get headaches from both my parents i hate them for screwing up my mental health.

[karahiri]

i think about what i could have been like if i had had happy parents. that's taking a quite passive view of the situation, certainly. but i do wonder about it. i think their relationship set a cynicism in me and sibling a lot earlier than intended. and you can see the effects of that in how we approach relationships. at the same time, it's given me insight into what not to do to make a relationship thrive.

[pupperluvo]

:I not anymore but had I stayed with my biological dad I would. He has a lot of loans he needs to pay off he buys cars every few months he has three kids living with him and his house isn’t very good or big. I live with my grandparents now. Also when I was living with him and my mom they put me in the boiler room so they wouldn’t have to listen to me cry at night when I was a baby

[Anonymous]

yeah. my family is the absolute worst. they make fun of my weight everyday (even tho im skinny and work out everyday) and always blame me and yell at me for some stupid stuff. my dad has pushed me down the stairs backwards and then nearly strangled me once and for the longest time i was mortified of him because he groped my boob

[UltimateGohan]

Yeah my family also makes fun of me for being fat (which i actually am) and they always demotivate me for doing anything good in my life. They keep finding faults in me. Whereas they love my brother for every bullshit he does.

[Opinion Owner]

no i feel you. my little brother is their perfect angel. they spend so much time and money on him whereas they won't even spend $5 bucks on me. theyre always so supportive of anything he does but whenever i accomplish anything they dont care. they always flat out ignore me whenever i talk and im just ready to move out

[UltimateGohan]

In my case i am the little brother but they love my elder brother. Life is soo fucked up. Why can't we just live without hurting each other.

[Markasaurous]

Sorry to hear that! You can always talk to your parents and tell them how you feel, or another trusted adult be your relatives or teachers! Seek help with people you interact with on a daily basis!

[UltimateGohan]

Its no use I've tried

[Markasaurous]

There isn't really much you can do besides try! My parents did that when I was younger and I am glad it stopped but it was still dreadful. I suppose if you move out for college when your 18 that will be a good change for you, however I strongly encourage you to keep your head up and keep trying to get things well with your parents so you don't leave your home hating them,

[SketchForger]

Other people have it worse than me, but it still exists...

[ghostqueen]

My room is falling apart, I live with the loudest people on earth, the neighborhood is loud and dangerous, I smell the laundry exhaust of everyone in the building, and I'm convinced living here will be the death of me most days. Yeah, it's pretty bad.

[holly6090]

Just my dad. He has anger and low self-issues. Often gets angry over small things, blames me for a lot of things and sometimes calls me names. He is a good dad and is there for us a lot but because of lack of emotionally connection towards me, I have started to resent him.

[caitlin8839]

It can be and that really sucks because you wish that the environment was better and wasn't just another thing for you to deal with. You want to come home to a happy, safe and warm environment and sometimes you don't. However, most of the time it's bearable and it could always be a lot worse.

[Anonymous]

Yes absolutely. I have the same kind of environment at my house like u stated. I am so fed up of it. And sometimes I get scolded even for petty things. And I am like 'what did I do to even deserve this'. And it becomes really hard to stay positive sometimes. But still I try.

[Leafpool2]

Ha I feel ya my mental health is... whoo boy is it fuckity because my parents are shitty. But I also get the shit kicked outta me a lot so...

[Dreamgrove]

Luckily I do not live in a bad environment. My parents are divorced. Good luck to you and your situation, I hope it gets better!

[Whatthefluff]

Yes. I don't even want to get into it, but let's just say I want to be financially stable and an adult already

[N23SA]

That sucks. I love being home because it's the only place I can relax

[nina2992]

At least they are alive and well and they love you. sometimes it gets hard but then the most important thing is that you are their priority and if necessary they will stand by you. So focus on the positive side

[Lyndsielee666]

I did as a child but things do get better (:

[UltimateGohan]

Not for everyone😔

[Lyndsielee666]

It all depends how you choose to let it effect you. I didn't think I'd be where I am today because of how I lived growing up but here I am.
Keep your head up.

[opurba]

people I know r bad environment of mine.

[UltimateGohan]

Same here. Thats why i like to spend my time away from people

[Anonymous]

Luckily, my home situation is fine.

[LuWe22]

No. My parents are both loving and good

[9teen]

Yeah.

[LegateLanius]

I never did.

[Revolver_]

It's bearable