I feel like you should just tell her how you feel just be respectful and considerate of word choice. This way you can feel comfortable in your own home and just around her period. It is literally a win win. You get to stay friends with her while being comfortable, while she learns better hygiene.
I don't think it is rude to tell somebody that they need to take a bath I think it is a real friend to tell someone that has bad body odor you take a bath is a better friend than one that says nothing and let them walk around with stink ass all day
😂😂😂😂 I shouldn't be laughing.. but anyways, its better you tell her as a friend than people make fun of her behind her back. So yes you should tell her. but tread lightly because she has a medical issue and can be dealing with depression along with it. Try to take that into consideration when you tell her
Why would she sleep in your bed and be only a friend? Anyways I would invent an excuse just to discourage her from even coming to the apartment if I was in your shoes!
😂😂 hahaha Oh we know you keep those footsies clean as they can be
Tell her it’s not about the shower it’s more about the soap... she can shower daily just don’t use super hot water and use only non scented ph balanced soap like cetaphil
It probably would but I think you should tell her in the nicest way possible cause in the end it will only benefit. Cause if that's what you think just imagine how others around her feel.
You have a very entitled attitude. You are correct. You shouldn’t. But she has a medical condition. You should be understanding. She shouldn’t have to have an eczema flare up for you. It’s just the nice caring friendly thing to do. Let her sleep in your bed, you sleep on the floor. It’s one night. Do the laundry the next morning. Also stop showering twice a day girl. Your hair is gonna be so dry and frizzy.
I don’t wash my hair every time I bathe... . Second I have eczema as well and had severe eczema as a child. It doesn’t keep me from bathing ☺️. I should have an entitled attitude considering I’m paying for everything up in there... those are brand new sheets.
Some of these people hee are so desperate for friends they settle for anything. It's sad, there's no reason you should have to tell someone to bathe or do their laundry.
Yes! You are being a good friend by telling her to be hygenic! How is she supposed to live like that and make friends and find a decent boyfriend? You are doing the right thing
Depends on how you say it. I've said that a couple of times and people just don't mind it. They get it. But I was very subtle and made them laugh it off etc
If she smells like dog then it because of her dog lol but if she smells like nasty human body then thats her lol and thats gross and can cause scabies so she better take a shower but real talk ill stay the night with you instead 😋
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That's Never Rude If They Smell Extremely Bad. That's Considered Offensive To My Sinuses. 🌸💜🌸
I feel like you should just tell her how you feel just be respectful and considerate of word choice. This way you can feel comfortable in your own home and just around her period. It is literally a win win. You get to stay friends with her while being comfortable, while she learns better hygiene.
I don't think it is rude to tell somebody that they need to take a bath I think it is a real friend to tell someone that has bad body odor you take a bath is a better friend than one that says nothing and let them walk around with stink ass all day
😂😂😂😂 I shouldn't be laughing.. but anyways, its better you tell her as a friend than people make fun of her behind her back. So yes you should tell her. but tread lightly because she has a medical issue and can be dealing with depression along with it. Try to take that into consideration when you tell her
No... it is, however, rude to neglect your personal hygiene to a point that it is offensive to other peoples senses. Wash. Yo. Self.
Why would she sleep in your bed and be only a friend? Anyways I would invent an excuse just to discourage her from even coming to the apartment if I was in your shoes!
Where else is she gonna sleep? Have you never had a sleep over lmao 😂. I stated in my question that I told her she could sleep on the floor.
😂😂 hahaha
Oh we know you keep those footsies clean as they can be
Tell her it’s not about the shower it’s more about the soap... she can shower daily just don’t use super hot water and use only non scented ph balanced soap like cetaphil
It probably would but I think you should tell her in the nicest way possible cause in the end it will only benefit. Cause if that's what you think just imagine how others around her feel.
She has no other friends
Damn well I'd still tell her I think you'd only benefit her in the end
If it were me I wouldn't even let her into my apartment lol and our minimum distance would be 2 meters
It may hurt her at first but honesty is the best policy. You'll be a better friend for telling her what everyone laughs behind her back about.
You’re telling me you can’t wash your sheets for a friend.
I shouldn’t have to “wash my sheets for a friend”
You have a very entitled attitude. You are correct. You shouldn’t. But she has a medical condition. You should be understanding. She shouldn’t have to have an eczema flare up for you. It’s just the nice caring friendly thing to do. Let her sleep in your bed, you sleep on the floor. It’s one night. Do the laundry the next morning.
Also stop showering twice a day girl. Your hair is gonna be so dry and frizzy.
I don’t wash my hair every time I bathe... . Second I have eczema as well and had severe eczema as a child. It doesn’t keep me from bathing ☺️. I should have an entitled attitude considering I’m paying for everything up in there... those are brand new sheets.
Why should she be responsible for another adult? she didn't say the girl was crippled she said she has eczema
@flowers70 exactly
Some of these people hee are so desperate for friends they settle for anything. It's sad, there's no reason you should have to tell someone to bathe or do their laundry.
I've never been the type to do it. I keep my comments to myself. I don't like to hurt people's feelings.
I have to harass my 13 yr old kid to get him to shower.
He really stinks by the end of the day.
You need to just be honest.
It sucks, but do you really want her around you smelling like a wet dog?
Yes! You are being a good friend by telling her to be hygenic!
How is she supposed to live like that and make friends and find a decent boyfriend?
You are doing the right thing
Depends on how you say it.
I've said that a couple of times and people just don't mind it. They get it. But I was very subtle and made them laugh it off etc
"I've already showered the other day" lmao😂😂😂
If she smells like dog then it because of her dog lol but if she smells like nasty human body then thats her lol and thats gross and can cause scabies so she better take a shower but real talk ill stay the night with you instead 😋
I guess in a way it is bad to tell a girl they stink or need to shower. You could hurt their feelings
Nope, I would say "Bitch you stank. Go hop in the shower you nasty bitch."
Tell her that you don’t let anyone lay in your bed without a shower
You Will do her a favour to tell because anyway everyone gossips about it. You should be honest about it because of that reason