Am I getting too close to my (Platonic) guy friend?

[ellacha]

I have gotten really close to this guy I work with. We both feel really comfortable with each other, and it seems to be Platonic for both of us. The reason I'm asking is because we've started hanging out a lot more, and opening up to each other about our insecurities, etc., including stuff we've "never told anyone else". I feel really lucky to have such an amazing connection with someone else, but I know if he were my boyfriend, and he started sharing stuff with a female friend- even a Platonic female friend- I'd be feeling a bit uneasy. Should I bring this up to him? I don't know his girlfriend personally, and I don't know how she feels about it, but don't want to put any strain on their relationship. Help?

[lucyloo]

Personally if there was a strain, you would probably know about it, just by the way the girlfriend acts with you. I wouldn't let it bother you, because if it is just a close friendship then you're not doing anything wrong, and the girlfriend probably knows, if her boyfriend is honest. I've always had a close guy friend, and I've personally never had problems from the gfs.

I wouldn't let this become an issue until you have good grounds to believe it is one for the gf.

[awaken03]

Best thing to do is still be open to him and be sincere..if you don't want problems with this situation and all..Control yourself and limit the time you hang-out with him..You don't want to develop any feelings more than friendship specially with a guy who is already taken and all..