Have you ever regret opening up to someone?

[beebella]

Yep, it happens

Not sure that I have

I don't open up to people

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Why did GaG change the topic to Sexuality? 😂
@GirlsAskGuys

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Now they've changed it again... Hmm. 🤔

[mojj0]

Yeah, but it's life you trust someone or some people and feel the need to express yourself and it impacts the relationships negatively... people need to console in others, just need to be careful of who they are, perhaps they are too close to a situation

[ChiTown33]

Yes, everytime you give someone the road map to your heart and head you give them the power to exploit rhe situation if they wish. So you have to be selective about. Who you share things with.

[ultimega]

Yes. My so-called friend
I'd tell her something and then if we had arguments she would use what I told her as leverage/blackmail so she could get what she wanted.

[ultimega]

Aww thanks for the mho babes

[Flower7]

I have, because sometimes, the person has ended up using personal things against me. Either in gossip or to upset me when we're having an argument.

[Flower7]

Thanks for MHO :)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes , it happens i have opened up to people and
i see the snicker on their face which is not right
for example i told this Woman at the grocery store
that i was Bipolar and she looked at me like oh stay
away from him cause he's Bipolar now i can honestly
say i would and have no plans to harm anyone cause
i am Bipolar wow people make me sick and i like to tell
them where to get off at. A neighbor girl had Bipolar
and people treated her like shit , yes the girl was messed
up in the head but why treat her like shit?

[wynn-ing]

I don't open to people. I have trust issues and I really don't think it's worth it for me or them.
It's not even because I think they just wouldn't get it but I don't know how to articulate what's truly on my mind well, I guess.

It's difficult. For many reasons.

[Cynicaldreamer]

More than I care to admit.
Especially someone I thought I could confide in, only to have them blab my secret, or not be sympathetic.

And don't even get me started on confessing my feelings to someone? Ugh.

As bad as it sounds, sometimes it's better to keep things to yourself.

[Anonymous]

I told my parents about being abused by my uncle and they called me a liar and tried to force me to still spend weekends with him.
So I got smart and barricaded the door with my body so when he did come into my room in the middle of the night I would at least wake up first.

[Fuentes]

I always judge when chicks open up to me they be telling me about they baby dads or stupid ish n i be like was he like that before and they be like yeah and im like then it's your fault or some girl told me once that she cheated back on her boyfriend with another guy and i said damn so u had a guy on the side the whole time u is a cheater lol and she got mad but idgaf they not wife like youuu

[CarpetDenim]

No...

I think a mod may have gone rogue and changed the topics on random questions to the Sexuality topic to troll, because I saw a few other questions with updates asking the same thing. Quite strange.

[OGxtra]

Yes I have made a mistake thinking to that I could trust someone when of course you can't even trust your mail man or the nosy next door neighbor ! Is this a sign of the decline of western civilization as we know it?

[razelove]

Never share details, but broad strokes of the brush, then if they get offended or triggered, fuck them. They know nothing concrete about a person who no longer exists in their life.

[aicarg]

Heck yes. I hate it when I share something personal with someone and they decide to share it with others.

[MackToday]

Ya, I have a lot of paranormal experiences and always have. It goes pretty deep and it's hard not to have anyone to talk to about it. The times I have I've regretted it to some degree or other.

[es20490446e]

You shall open up with people by default, but not so with those that show a dysfunctional behavior. There are a few of people that are sadistic, and enjoy you suffering. Happily this is the least.

[Rangers]

Yes, she was telling everyone my secrets that she swore to keep and I hadn't told anyone before.

[beebella]

I had a sister like that once.

[ChefSwol]

“Had” a sister?

[beebella]

@ChefSwol We've been estranged for years.

[ChefSwol]

You seem like the type that would distance herself from family. How sad.

[beebella]

@ChefSwol It's what she wanted. 💁

[ChefSwol]

Hmm. Now I wanna know

[beebella]

@ChefSwol It's a long story.

[ChefSwol]

Who’s fault is it

[beebella]

Hers.

[ChefSwol]

Hmmm. I see now. Who’s fault it really is.

[beebella]

Do you, really?

[ChefSwol]

Yes. Sounds to me like it’s your fault.

[beebella]

How does it sound like that?

[ChefSwol]

Because you blamed her. Instead of saying it’s my fault. If you said it was my fault I would think it’s hers. Because you took responsibility

[beebella]

I'm not responsible for her issues.

[ChefSwol]

When will you ever grow up?

[beebella]

When will you?

[ChefSwol]

Good question

[beebella]

It is, isn't it?

[ChefSwol]

You tell me.

[beebella]

I think it is.

[ChefSwol]

Is what? You’re not being specific

[beebella]

It is a good question.

[ChefSwol]

I personally think it’s both of your fault. Family should never split.

[beebella]

It was necessary.

[ChefSwol]

Did you guys have any physical fights?

[beebella]

When we were kids.

[ChefSwol]

Was it over a boy?

[beebella]

No, we never liked the same boys. 😂

[ChefSwol]

Who’s prettier

[beebella]

She is, but why do you want to keep talking in this dude's comment section? 😂

[ChefSwol]

Let’s take it to my opinion.

[jillybeanns]

Yeah, happened one time. And it’s not that they betrayed my trust. It’s more along the lines of my words falling on deaf ears.

[Sarahr123]

No because I have a very strong sixth sense. I know who is a snake and who can be trusted.

[courtney06]

Oh yeah quite often. Especially if they suddenly stop talking to me.

[roland77]

Means you have been ghosted by someone? That feels really bad!

[pigoat]

Don't open up to my family she will throw that shit in your face everytime you argue

[roland77]

Out of irrational anger, yes I will regret that and later say "Sorry" to him or her. Because I do care.

[taleets]

Yes on a date this past Wednesday. He was so rude and said I was over sharing

[Jjpayne]

My roommate does this all the time. :) insta judge :) he calls it speaking truth :) lol

[SydneySentinel]

Yes, especially when they use it against you in your relationship.