Have you ever regret opening up to someone?

Question

mojj0 · Accepted Answer

Yeah, but it's life you trust someone or some people and feel the need to express yourself and it impacts the relationships negatively... people need to console in others, just need to be careful of who they are, perhaps they are too close to a situation

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

Yes, everytime you give someone the road map to your heart and head you give them the power to exploit rhe situation if they wish. So you have to be selective about. Who you share things with.

ultimega · Accepted Answer

Yes. My so-called friend I'd tell her something and then if we had arguments she would use what I told her as leverage/blackmail so she could get what she wanted.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

I have, because sometimes, the person has ended up using personal things against me. Either in gossip or to upset me when we're having an argument.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes , it happens i have opened up to people and
i see the snicker on their face which is not right
for example i told this Woman at the grocery store
that i was Bipolar and she looked at me like oh stay
away from him cause he's Bipolar now i can honestly
say i would and have no plans to harm anyone cause
i am Bipolar wow people make me sick and i like to tell
them where to get off at. A neighbor girl had Bipolar
and people treated her like shit , yes the girl was messed
up in the head but why treat her like shit?

wynn-ing · Answer

I don't open to people. I have trust issues and I really don't think it's worth it for me or them.
It's not even because I think they just wouldn't get it but I don't know how to articulate what's truly on my mind well, I guess.

It's difficult. For many reasons.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

More than I care to admit.
Especially someone I thought I could confide in, only to have them blab my secret, or not be sympathetic.

And don't even get me started on confessing my feelings to someone? Ugh.

As bad as it sounds, sometimes it's better to keep things to yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

I told my parents about being abused by my uncle and they called me a liar and tried to force me to still spend weekends with him.
So I got smart and barricaded the door with my body so when he did come into my room in the middle of the night I would at least wake up first.

Fuentes · Answer

I always judge when chicks open up to me they be telling me about they baby dads or stupid ish n i be like was he like that before and they be like yeah and im like then it's your fault or some girl told me once that she cheated back on her boyfriend with another guy and i said damn so u had a guy on the side the whole time u is a cheater lol and she got mad but idgaf they not wife like youuu

CarpetDenim · Answer

No...

I think a mod may have gone rogue and changed the topics on random questions to the Sexuality topic to troll, because I saw a few other questions with updates asking the same thing. Quite strange.

OGxtra · Answer

Yes I have made a mistake thinking to that I could trust someone when of course you can't even trust your mail man or the nosy next door neighbor ! Is this a sign of the decline of western civilization as we know it?

razelove · Answer

Never share details, but broad strokes of the brush, then if they get offended or triggered, fuck them. They know nothing concrete about a person who no longer exists in their life.

Rangers · Answer

Yes, she was telling everyone my secrets that she swore to keep and I hadn't told anyone before.

aicarg · Answer

Heck yes. I hate it when I share something personal with someone and they decide to share it with others.

MackToday · Answer

Ya, I have a lot of paranormal experiences and always have. It goes pretty deep and it's hard not to have anyone to talk to about it. The times I have I've regretted it to some degree or other.

es20490446e · Answer

You shall open up with people by default, but not so with those that show a dysfunctional behavior. There are a few of people that are sadistic, and enjoy you suffering. Happily this is the least.

jillybeanns · Answer

Yeah, happened one time. And it’s not that they betrayed my trust. It’s more along the lines of my words falling on deaf ears.

Sarahr123 · Answer

No because I have a very strong sixth sense. I know who is a snake and who can be trusted.

courtney06 · Answer

Oh yeah quite often. Especially if they suddenly stop talking to me.

loveslongnails · Answer

I've learned to be much more selective about who I trust.

pigoat · Answer

Don't open up to my family she will throw that shit in your face everytime you argue

roland77 · Answer

Out of irrational anger, yes I will regret that and later say "Sorry" to him or her. Because I do care.

taleets · Answer

Yes on a date this past Wednesday. He was so rude and said I was over sharing

Jjpayne · Answer

My roommate does this all the time. :) insta judge :) he calls it speaking truth :) lol

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes I have a few times. I am very careful who I open up too, especially online.

SydneySentinel · Answer

Yes, especially when they use it against you in your relationship.

Wolframium · Answer

Yeah, that's why I'm trying not to open. Let's see who you are first, then maybe…

Kay0019 · Answer

Why I keep my problems to myself as much as possible :/

Aiasis · Answer

Nope. It's good to know the truth and listen to the other person's side of the story to make a better decision on how to move consequently.

EleanorRigby · Answer

I have. Nothing really bad happened, I just regretted getting so attached.

YHL6965 · Answer

Yes, the only time I opened up to my parents because I was being bullied, they ended up shaming me and, basically, bullying me even further.

Gurpratap · Answer

Yes, a lot of times. And mostly I regret doing it with my friends

ThisIsTal · Answer

The 2/3 times I've done so it literally turns out for the worst. Most don't tend to like knowing what troubles people irl I find. Unless they are infatuated with you.

hollyeood69 · Answer

Yes.. I have and it backed fire on me.. it hurt more then it should

Account · Answer

I don't do that and I don't end up being disappointed.

purplepoppy · Answer

People only open up when they want to be positively judged.

MoscowMitch · Answer

I'm very careful who I open up to now. I've had bad experiences in the past.

Brett99 · Answer

Yes, but we all make mistakes tbh

acooke-13 · Answer

Yes, only because afterwards I felt embarrassed

WhiteShoulder · Answer

No. I’ve regretted misjudging people.

InfobotsMom · Answer

I have nothing inside 😬

Supermosh1990 · Answer

Yeah I do regret it a lot

NickiB · Answer

Yes. Not sure how this is sexuality either😂😂

Kayayy · Answer

Yes. Which is why I tend to keep to myself

MannMitAntworten · Answer

No. I have never shared anything compromising.

adamski24 · Answer

Yes it's bitten me on the bum before

Anonymous · Answer

Every time. So now I don't bother.

LiFe_HaS_No_PurPoSe · Answer

I've never ever have opened up to anyone lol

JesseTheMan · Answer

Maybe but not sure. I have abad memory sometimes.

ChefSwol · Answer

Maybe.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

No, haven’t yet.

rapfan107 · Answer

Yup that's why I don't do it

whysoblurry · Answer

Almost everytime.

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

Yepp

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

YES!

humanearth · Answer

Oh yeah, some BS

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

Creepazoid · Answer

Yes!

DnSC_ · Answer

Yep I have

AlphaBot · Answer

lol once the former happens you grab the ladder.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Yes, a couple times.

Kittycat1993 · Answer

Yes. Absolutely

alance99 · Answer

Yes i do regret

Nahid1707 · Answer

Nope

Have you ever regret opening up to someone?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Have you ever regret confessing your love to someone?

Have you ever regret opening up to someone?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Have you ever regret confessing your love to someone?

We're glad to see you liked this post.