I don't understand. I'm not even sure why I'd let them stay over in the first place. Maybe in some extraordinary situation, I would, but I need a whole lot more details. In general, I'm not even sure I'd let them stay in the house.
I barely sleep anyway lol Seriously tho, I would and have given up my bed to company, both invited and not. It's all about making someone feel comfortable and at home. It's the gracious thing to do
I voted G, but it has to be some kind of emergency. I'm not someone who lives comfortably on a sofa so normally I wouldn't do it except if the person is a close relative or friend and really needs my hospitality :D
Partner yes, obviously. If it's a close friend then yes, sure. Sister, or cousin, maybe. My mother lives too close for this to be a reasonable idea. Aunt or uncle would just be weird.
Yes, but it depends on the situation.. if there was an extra bedroom, then they would sleep there.. if we had a couch then they could sleep on it, unless they needed the bed, then I would sleep on the couch.
I have two spare rooms, so don't need to make the offer very often, but sure I would offer my bed if circumstances warranted it. I understand it really isn't a physical object on offer, but a showing of respect and humbleness to an esteemed guest.
I'd give up my bed for my dad or grandparents, that's about it as I view them as my elders and I wouldn't want them to sleep on a pull out bed or couch if I didn't have a guest bedroom.
Couch or air bed. My best friend likes to sleep in bed with me I’ve noticed if she sleeps over 🙄 once I bought an Airbnb with 2 rooms she wanted to sleep with me rather than her own bedroom
Yea in HS i let friends sleep in the bed with me and it was so uncomfy having like 4 of us in one bed because no one wanted to sleep on couch or floor lol
I see you would not. Fair enough. I think a girl's bedroom and bed are far more personal and intimate. What is a joy is sleeping in a girl's bed (with her, of course). Not only is she there, but her natural and perfume/soap fragrances are in the bed, and most likely pheromones) making it very arousing. Really.
It depends on who the guest is and whether i invited them or not. If i invited you over then i'd have to compromise. If you came over out of the blue, again depending on who it is we might have to share the bed or i use the couch.
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I don't understand. I'm not even sure why I'd let them stay over in the first place. Maybe in some extraordinary situation, I would, but I need a whole lot more details. In general, I'm not even sure I'd let them stay in the house.
Thats true
I barely sleep anyway lol
Seriously tho, I would and have given up my bed to company, both invited and not.
It's all about making someone feel comfortable and at home.
It's the gracious thing to do
Not if they werent invited 🤷♀️
But then you have a choice to not let them stay. But if you do, then you did make that choice to play hostess
I voted G, but it has to be some kind of emergency. I'm not someone who lives comfortably on a sofa so normally I wouldn't do it except if the person is a close relative or friend and really needs my hospitality :D
Partner yes, obviously. If it's a close friend then yes, sure. Sister, or cousin, maybe. My mother lives too close for this to be a reasonable idea. Aunt or uncle would just be weird.
Lmao ok
Yes, but it depends on the situation.. if there was an extra bedroom, then they would sleep there.. if we had a couch then they could sleep on it, unless they needed the bed, then I would sleep on the couch.
Oh okay
I have two spare rooms, so don't need to make the offer very often, but sure I would offer my bed if circumstances warranted it. I understand it really isn't a physical object on offer, but a showing of respect and humbleness to an esteemed guest.
I'd give up my bed for my dad or grandparents, that's about it as I view them as my elders and I wouldn't want them to sleep on a pull out bed or couch if I didn't have a guest bedroom.
I would. Taking the couch would not be the worse thing in the world for me
I guess
I understand your place though, it's your area and private place
Depends. I typically don't like to share my bed but I will if it's someone important.
I’ll give em a heads up quick on what not to expect. Im not leaving mybed
I wouldn't give up on my bed even if it meant giving it to the most charming woman. SLEEP IS SLEEP
Lmao
Depends on the guest. If they are my parents visiting me or my close family then yes, I would give up my bed. Anyone else would get the sofa 🤷🏽♂️
Lmao
If anything, I may share my bed If appropriate but I’m not giving it up.
Yea thats silly to give it up in my opinion
Depends on the need for them. I have a hammock that I love anyway. But if I have someone here with me... not giving it up for anyone
Lol fair enough
Couch or air bed. My best friend likes to sleep in bed with me I’ve noticed if she sleeps over 🙄 once I bought an Airbnb with 2 rooms she wanted to sleep with me rather than her own bedroom
Yea in HS i let friends sleep in the bed with me and it was so uncomfy having like 4 of us in one bed because no one wanted to sleep on couch or floor lol
Lol right but the Airbnb though like there’s a whole bed for you she was scared😑 I couldn’t find a pretty one with two beds in the same room
For a parent or aunt/uncle yes. Anyone else. No lol
Oh ok
It’s a respect thing
I would give bed for any welcome guest.
I've slept on the floor under beach towels a few times.
Dang thats nice
I see you would not. Fair enough. I think a girl's bedroom and bed are far more personal and intimate. What is a joy is sleeping in a girl's bed (with her, of course). Not only is she there, but her natural and perfume/soap fragrances are in the bed, and most likely pheromones) making it very arousing. Really.
I wouldn't give my bed up for anyone. Your place means you sleep on your bed. Everyone else can find whatever to sleep on.
Exactly!!
For grandparents absolutely, or anyone elderly for that matter. For other guests I'd take it on a case by case basis
It depends on who the guest is and whether i invited them or not. If i invited you over then i'd have to compromise. If you came over out of the blue, again depending on who it is we might have to share the bed or i use the couch.
Even if i invited you, i’d give a heads up about getting a hotel before committing to the invite
Would the hotel arrangement be on you or it would be on your guest?
On them if they wanna visit. I only offer my bed to a boyfriend. Everyone else knows not to come if they have nowhere to stay
If you invited them, then you'd have to provide accommodation unless they decide to provide one for themselves.
And thats why i dont invite people
Fair enough
I would and I have given up my bed for a visiting parent. Old people have bad joints and they can't handle sleeping on the floor as well as I can.
Thats true but my grandpa insisted on sleeping on the floor so i let him
Okay. Well, that's his choice.