I'm going to meet my boyfriend for the first time and I'm a little scared.

[nerdboi]

we met on facebook and we've been talking for a while, he knows some of my friends..and after a week or so he asked me out and I said yes. we live near each other so he wanted us to meet up Friday and I'm really excited but nervous because I've never kissed a guy before and I know he wants to kiss me also I'm not sure what we're gonna talking about, I don't want him to get bored of me.

HELP!?!

[Eilonwy]

Personally, I met up with 2 guys I met online years ago and they both turned out to be exceptionally boring in person, even though we got on great online. A friend of mine met a guy she had only talked to online that she met through a different friend of ours and they ended up being together for 3 years. Don't stress and just be yourself and if it turns out you don't want to kiss him, don't. he should respect your decision and maybe you can meet up a few more times and see how things go

[nerdboi]

any tips on what we should do or talk about..i'm kinda shy

[Eilonwy]

lol I'm the same so no idea, the first guy I met, I had no idea what to say to him (I was like 15 at the time) so we just followed two of my friends around some shops, I asked him if he wanted to go somewhere else, but it turned out he was also really shy and we kinda just wandered about feeling kinda awkward...

Even just say to him that you're not too sure what to do and if he has any suggestions, just fake confidence initially and you won't even notice that you're not pretending pretty soon

[Anonymous]

Be yourself 100%. if you like him and he goes for a kiss then its your chance :D. just chat about your what you like doing and that but make sure you let him talk and listen to him ;)

also maybe don't say the word boyfriend around him cos usually people date a bit before a relationship.

good luck, hope he's good to you :D

[nerdboi]

thank you.

[Shawzie]

I feel inclined to ask. If you haven't met him in person yet why do you call him your boyfriend?

[Spacemen3]

touch?

[Spacemen3]

touche

[nerdboi]

ok, my friend that I will be dating. -___-

[Shawzie]

Just a general observation that guys don't like to be claimed unless they give themselves to you. Your post simply didn't indicate that level of commitment.

[nerdboi]

he considers himself my baby so ithink he's fine if I call him my boyfriend even though we really haven't "dated"

[Anonymous]

come up with a bunch of questions you can ask him in advance in case there are silences

[lostinfog]

Just relax and be yourself love. He likes you, you like him, enjoy it.

[Spacemen3]

What a paradox