Like she the type that make YOU feel guilty for just. living with less stress.
Guilty for have no worries guilty when you do have a problem but have someone to call and help.
guilty for existing... this bitch complain about everything. So i take her in small dose and because we are working from home i have to actully talk to her more since she got assigned on my team.
I slyly told her i gald from your view i seem pretty luck but in some ways i feel the university is making me pay in... other ways.
it went over her head lol
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Girlllllllllllll this post hit home for me!!! I have ex friends who did this. Basically make you feel guilty for existing AND being happy. I will never understand why people wouldn't want to see someone else happy... Especially a so called "friend". 😓✌️💟
You're "reporting" as I see it! I always tell my wife that. She's like, "Why are you fussing about the pasta being bland?" And I'm like, "I'm not complaining! I'm 'reporting'." :-D
But you know, the pasta really was bland and they didn't even cook it Al Dente. How do people open up Italian restaurants without knowing how to cook pasta? WTF. But you know, I'm just "reporting". :-D
Uh yeah, one of my friends are like this. We aren't really close anymore because I can't stand talking to him much so we hardly talk now. I've tried to look past it many times and focus on his good sides but it's very hard. Everytime him or I start a convo the first thing he does is talk about how he has a headache or how he's exhausted and and feeling lightheaded or how he thinks he's got a cold and he wants that sympathy. And everytime we hang out the only thing he talks about is how he got bullied as a teen and it wasn't even bad he had friends and he got a little teased, wow. I got bullied as a teen too in school and had 0 friends in school I never talk about it because it's so irrelevant and happened ages ago plus almost everyone got teased in school. He even complains about online girlfriends he had as a teen dumping him or being mean somehow and he's nearing 30 still complaining about these things 24/7. He also complains about being jobless but doesn't do much to change it, refuses to study anything too so he has something to do and a bigger chance at getting a job later. Any advice you come with he shoots down, just has to complain instead. Gets tiring. Wish he could pull himself out of it but I guess it's his thing at this point.
Yesssss. They are absolutely dreadful to be around. Everything that comes out their mouth is like “that sucks”. “Lame”.
For example I had this friend I would used to play games with online and they would literally complain about the game we were playing saying things like “omg this stupid game. I hate it” and it just makes you feel bad bc now the other person is obviously not having fun.
People like that just ruin even some of the simplest joys I life for you. I have no patience for people like that in my life anymore lol
My coworker never stops, she yells at her computer all day long out loud and it messes with your head and it takes all the self control in the world to stay down and keep working instead of picking up my entire desk and launching it at her😂 luckily, my wonderful girlfriend and unofficial fiance has done a great job of holding me down from losing my crap and whenever I need a reminder of why I'm doing this and she isn't available, I simply look at the picture of her on my phone staring back at me and remember that I'm doing this for us, if I have to listen to her cussing at a machine for at least 10 hours per day, so be it😊.
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Aweeeeee I hope the proposal goes well!!! And loved the post. Thanks 😊✌️💟
Yes one of my friend used to complain for everything... From dusk till dawn... Always used to complain... We got extremely fed up with this attitude blaming others for his unproductive life. All friends decided to leave him alone and we did it for like 2 months none amongst us spoke to him or asked him how he was... When we finally decided meet him... He was a changed person more responsible more productive... Hence we were the 1 who was listening his shit which was indirectly making him think he was correct.
Those people are annoying. It's never good enough for them. If you are in a restaurant with those people and the waiter is asking if everything is okay, they are the ones who always have something to complain about the food. They are not really fun. Even if they are enjoying themselves, there is always something which is worth nagging about. It all seems so negative.
There is a married couple I know who is kind of like that. I moved away so I haven't seen them for a couple years, but we used to do some outdoors excursions together. But they were always complaining about things, justifiably or not. I put up with it because we did a lot of fun stuff together and they were always pretty adventurous about things.
Uhhhh let's see I think everyone complains a bit here n there but my sister and Mom take the cake! Lol I have to say they complain too much sometimes I don't know who's worse! It's hard the be around them at times when this is the mood, yes it is negative and u feel it too!
Haha yes a very old friend of mine since school. He complains almost about everything i do for him. We see eachother very less due to our busy schedules so I don't know if he does the same to everyone. I tell him everytime that you have been hijacked by movies 😂 you tjink you are a hero who is betrayed by everyone but still he is still kind to everyone... This is real life come out of TV screen...
OOOOOOOOOOOHHH yes... I have a guy at my work and he complains about EVERYYYYYYYYTHING even when it's a perfect weather , even now the gas prices are so low we haven't seen these kinda of prices on gas since early 2010's like dude can you just smile and shut the fuck up for once, and yes he is one of those idiots who buys all the toilet papers. I just wonder ! What makes a person to be a complainer at 100% of their lives? Can you even relax , take a break maybe
I catch myself complaining way too much, but I try not to; people don't want to be around negativity, and I (like everyone else) prefer that people enjoy my company.
Hmmm, my ex used to complain a lot but I don't think she crossed the line, but yes, it seems she wasn't a happy person. At least I let her know her family loved her, I never part her from them. Probably that helped her somehow.
I avoid chronic complainers. It’s one thing for someone to complain occasionally, but those kinds of people you describe are toxic to my mental stability.
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Yessssss!!! I feel the exact same way. Like omg at least try to be positive sometimes right?😊✌️✌️
To be honest, I'm lowkey a chronic complainer... I like to stick to the original plans; but if one thing changes, I tend to complain depending on what changed...
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Totally understandable. Thanks for the help!!! 😊✌️💟
I actually have. I will admit I go through stunts of complaining but it coincides with my depression. However, I had a good friend that despite how great their life was, was still awful.
Lol yep ikr.. Only when I'm not happy. That will usually make it worse if not. Life has its ups and downs and well.. I could never really figure it out and I've been just down usually due to life's circumstances. They never are in my favor. Who knows.. Don't want to be that way tho.
If you want some advice, stop reading psychology today... It's not scientific, generally all opinion pieces, and should have been shut down over a decade ago. There's no psychology anywhere in that publication anymore.
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Sooooooo what's the answer to the question? The article was just the inspiration... Which means it's insignificant in regards to the question. Weird🤔😟
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