My baby Marley passed away 2 days ago and it’s really hard for me. I’ve never had to deal with this before and I feel really devastated. She died unexpectedly and I just was not ready for it at all. She wasn’t sick or anything so I really didn’t see it coming. I’ve been crying off and on all day and I really would like to just stop crying so much. I thought about getting another dog but I don’t think it’s going to help because they aren’t her 😢. mom okay right now it’s just I really miss her and I start to break down again. She won’t be there anymore when I come home. Her blanket is where she left it. I broke down earlier today at the grocery store cause I walked past the doggy aisle. I miss her but I don’t want to keep crying.
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My other dog was poisoned 2 weeks ago, so I was so focused on him and I honestly expected him to pass away before she did. She was never sick. So I never expected it. The day before she died she even charged at my other dog for getting to close to me (something she always did). Now I’m starting to wonder if she was poisoned too.
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My other passed not too long after I made this post.
Unfortunately, the only thing you can do is process your grief and mourn the loss, which takes time. I felt the exact same way over my beloved cat; I missed him, but didn't want to keep crying, yet something would remind me of him and I'd cry again!
Sometimes getting another pet does help. It's not replacing them, but it's having another pet to love and they're the best at helping you feel better when something is wrong!
I’m sorry for your loss, love... I’ve been there myself. It gets easier in time but the pain never really goes away. But it’s ok to miss her, to hurt, to grieve, as much as you want or need. You take all the time you need. Send me a dm if you want to talk ok?
Hugs, it's amazing how strong a bond can be between two different mammal groups, like our neolithic ancestors, I bet they loved their dogs too, your connection is just stronger than the average person's, it will take time, I believe you, she was one of a kind. I think that is lovely. She must have been a lovely dog.
I don’t know. That’s why I’m so hurt. I played with her the day before. She was fine. I went outside and she wouldn’t come when I called her and it was raining heavy. She didn’t come so I looked and I found her. She looked like she just fell over and died. Two weeks ago my other dog started having seizures and turns out he was poisoned.
Awww she is gorgeous, you have my deepest sympathy on your loss I know how you feel, I loss my fur baby on Mar 31, 2016, now I am sitting here with tears in my eyes
This made me cry cause I think about my dog who was diagnose with Tumor Mast and there was little chance of her getting better and the operation would of cost over $700
Like all deaths... In my family at funerals we get together and tell the bad (funny) stories about the dead person. It's not often that you get to meet someone (or animal) that makes an impact of your life so celebrate it... My Rottweiler Zoe would have the worst gas and she knew it she'd walk into your room while you're watching TV and you'd hear a pfft and she'd run out of there it was a drive by gassing... It was terrible but so funny... I'm sorry for your loss but you gained a bunch of good memories find someone to talk about them with. It lightens the heart to know what you have because of them... Hope that helps feel free to talk..
Hi! I completely understand your situation. My dog passed away a week ago, and i am still grieving. It’s been getting easier, but i still miss him so mich. I miss him sitting by my side everytime i sat on the garden, i miss his barks and generally the happiness he brought me. What helps me is to think of all the good memories i have of him, and how he brightened up my life. Think about how, even if she’s not physically here anymore, she’ll always be in your heart. I hope you feel better soon! ❤️
Sorry for your loss. When Blue died from a heat stroke, it was said to see. The fam cried and My moms boyfriend legit looked like he was gonna give it mouth to mouth. He buried it across from us in the woods and i used to fear some Pet Sematary stuff was gonna happen.
Sometimes getting another pet helps to fill the void. That's what I did. It can be the easiest way to redirect the pain into distraction. But sometimes it's embracing the morning process and at somepoint moving forward and using positive distraction. It's not easy but the more you get involved in other things and the more time that passes it gets easier
My deepest Condolences! I wish I had a good answer... but I dont ! The Death of loved ones & loved pets is always hard and everyone grieves differently! Try to think of happy memories, think she's in a better place try to keep a positive mindset! I know it's hard! Blessings! 🙏
I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, you will have to endure the pain till it's easier to bear. The best thing for you if to talk to someone and cry it out as much as possible. Keep her in your heart. Always remember her. Keep her stuff away from direct sight. Seeing it will only make it more difficult. You can remove it later when you're able to handle the pain.
Losing a pet is honestly one of the hardest things. They are ones that were always there to comfort you during tough times. We had to put one of our dogs down last year. He was 15... not the brightest dog but he was always so sweet and so happy. After we lost him, I'd break down every time I saw his food bowl. I don't remember how long it took, but now I can look back on him and smile at all the goofy things he did. I still miss him, but you'll get there someday too.
First I'd check if she was poisoned. It's not unheard of for neighbours with a grudge to throw poisoned food in the garden. Also check you never left methylated spirits lying around, dogs absolutely love drinking it but it's deadly. If it is a deliberate poisoning rather than accidental I'd be concerned for your own safety too.
Aww I'm so sorry. I feel your pain. I recently lost my dog and she was more family to me than humans. Just remember that, as sad as it is, dogs are gifts for us to cherish but not to keep forever. he's in a better place.
Most we can do is comfort u with words... in life u remember that good things about someone or pet and u hold it close to yr heart... and in time u will heal and her memories will bring joy... after that u replace her, it wudnt be her but a reflection of her...
Aweee that's awful 😕 Sry for your loss❤ I mean honestly there's nthng you can do to fast track it. You just need to go through the grieving, give yourself time to mourn him and be grateful for the time you had with him.
Takes time. It will get easier. You can’t say do this or do that because everyone handles losses in a different way. Time is the only thing that worked for me.
There's no right way. I'm so sorry for you and your families loss. I always try to think maybe God needed a really good dog in heaven and I'll see them eventually.
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