Nightmare with college, behind on work vital part of the year?

[Anonymous]

Basically until Christmas apart from the cheese fight dunking, I was flying with my work since Christmas I have gotten behind. Psrtied to much and now cos of the virus I'm at home and struggling with my work. I study buisness. My dad is super strict and I know he's gonna go mad if I dont pass. Advice?

[BeMuse]

You’re studying business an easy degree… How about you just start doing your work. I remember sitting sitting in a hallway reviewing laboratory procedures before a 4 hour biochemistry laboratory about to turn in a 50+ page lab report like I did every week and some random business major was complaining about how it was so hard that he and his group of 5 had to turn in a two page report and they only had a month to get it done can you believe that only a month how unfair… It was so hard cry cry cry. Business majors are pussies.

[Asker]

Ew be quiet

[najekim]

Dedicate 8-9 hours a day for your work just like will when you get a paying job. Party only from 6:00pm Fridays through Noon Sundays making sure you eat properly and drink 3X more non-alcoholic beverages than alcoholic beverages.

[Aarvagol]

First of all, you need to manage your time. Download managing time app or create a schedule by your own. You need to have a mind map, that's will facilitate your life and make your goals clearer. Focus on the psychological side, get ride of the stress, watch motivation vedios and order your priorities. Don't stress about your father, believe in yourself and work hard. Wish you the best luck 😉

[hopefulecynic]

Make a timeline, get into a routine, set goals and just do it.

Not for your dad though. Do it for you, otherwise you will regret wasting the opportunity.

You are building a future. It sounds great to party, but at the end of the semester, what do you want to have to show for it?

[custard83]

Structure your life. Set aside the time of day that you would normally be at work, and work. The time spent commuting, spend it studying. Extra free time? Party it up, social distance style. Failing isn't an option. Just dont it, dont worry about. Time spent worrying is wasted time that can be used studying. If you feel guilty about it, maybe you could that that instead of what you are doing at that time? Possibly? Maybe?

Tl;dr. Get the shit done, I believe in you. Spend proper time on important shit, and live your life, when possible.

[Shivvy123]

Maybe tell your dad about your struggles. Even though he's strict it would be better to tell him now rather than him finding out later you have failed. Telling him might open a window for you to get more help. He might have lots of ideas for to catch up. 🙂

[Asker]

He pissees me off he's more assed about my 18 year old little brother his pride and joy then what I'm doing.

[motherknowsbest]

Well I'm not aware of your whole situation. But here's my advice.

Do the work. You seem to understand what you have to do. We can tell you to organize a schedule or buckle down 5 hours a day, and it doesn't get you any closer to it. Sometimes you have to push the how out of your mind and just get down and do the work.

[Asker]

My dad is just making me so anxious with it. he's more assed with my little 18 year old brother his pride and joy. He only bothers with me when he wants to give me grief.

[motherknowsbest]

Well are you going for an education for your fathers sake or yours? Let go of the anxiety. It will help you become a better student, a better daughter, and just maybe set you on the path of becoming your own woman.

[Asker]

Mine to an extent but I dont wanna disappoint him.

[motherknowsbest]

All children disappoint their parents at times. It doesn't diminish our love for our children. In fact, it often presents an opportunity for them to grow and become stronger people. Failure is our greatest teacher.

[Asker]

I guess 🙄 can u answer the other question I invited you too?

[Lost_Spark]

Shut out all the nonsense, get your head down and study. The internet can provide source materials for you, do the best you can.

We are in an uncertain stasis of life right now

🙂

[Asker]

Thanks I'm just really stressed.

[Lost_Spark]

That's understandable 🙂. It is good that you are not bottling it up, it is good to share as it helps take the weight.

[AzureGirl]

Create a schedule of sorts. Work on your class, take an hour break for food/entertainment, get back to work for a few hours, break, repeat. Not necessarily that but you get the idea.

[Asker]

Yeah need a routine and a plan.

[AzureGirl]

Yep! Also if it helps try to make small goals and rewards for when you reach those goals. Like after finishing one assignment reward yourself with a social media break or an episode of your favorite show or something.

[Asker]

Thanks so much, try answer the other question I invite you too aswell

[AzureGirl]

I will!😊

[mousie26]

Section the work out and do so much a day. That's what I did with my last course. With 2 kids it's hard so if I can you got this.

[Asker]

I did a little today but I work most days, I owe 7 assignments.

[mousie26]

Do the smallest ones first try get them done as fast as you can.

[Asker]

I'm way to thick.

[mousie26]

No you aren't.

[vany22]

U seem to fight a lot
Keep urself out of these fights and people won't bother u by reminding u of u did

[Asker]

I'm good at it tbf 🤣. Thanks

[vany22]

No as someone said it seems to be so immature ur growing up so keep urself out of troubles

[Ianto]

Decide how much effort you want to put in. Do it. Accept that you will achieve a proportionate result. Do not waste time and effort worrying about what you didn't do, what your dad will say, what the neighbours think. Your life, your choices!

[Asker]

Thanks 💖💖💖💖

[SalamiSalmonella]

dont waste time, just study and work as hard as you can. Get good amounts of sleep and stay focused.

[Asker]

Thanks girl. Just been partying too much, more interested in the social side of it since the turn of the year.

[SalamiSalmonella]

I get what you mean, but you need to remain focused. You can't let social life ruin your chance for a better future

[Asker]

Iknow - you sound like my dad 🤣

[SalamiSalmonella]

i sound like a parent, not the firts time i'm told

[Asker]

It's not necessarily a bad thing. Great advice by the way 💖

[SalamiSalmonella]

Thank you ! <3

[Anonymous]

uuh because of the virus now you are at home and can't go out partying and that's a problem for you to catch up with coursework? 😂😂😂

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 very true

[Helpgirl31]

It’s so difficult to find motivation!
Start off by doing like 30 mins of catching up and increase it so it doesn’t feel too heavy to begin with ☺️

[theCobbler]

Better leave the party life alone for a while ; hunker down and study up!

[Asker]

That's boring though

[theCobbler]

Would you rather be a little bored or scolded by your father? Sorry ! Tough love !

Have you ever read the fable" the Ant & the grasshopper" ?

[Asker]

No Haha. My dad is to busy with my 18 year old pain in the ass little brother. He just loves giving me grief.

[theCobbler]

Oh! Ok ! lol well than party a little : study a lot!

[Asker]

Haahha okay 💖

[angiebangie]

If you send some of your work to me, I'll see if I can help you. Lol, not joking

[Madhatter920]

Refocus. It sounds like you have a lot of catching up to do. Start at the beginning and continue until you reach the end.

[coldwarm]

Just f.. k of all the things and do what you wanna do

[Asker]

Finally someone on my way of thinking !

[coldwarm]

hahaha glad to hear that

[Hize99]

Take it day by day, try ur best to give urself credits and breaks. Organise ur time and show ur dad that u are responsible

[humanearth]

Buckle down and go really gung ho on studies. You just might make it. with

[QueenOfBaku]

Make a list of things that relaxe you the most in this life

[COMMODOREII]

Try to organize everything and take it a day at a time.

[Stella_79]

Relax claim down breath use YouTube it helps maybe seeing with experience.

[maxkander]

Focus on study. It is better if you going to focus on it then you will have better jobs.

[MiamiMadness]

Blame the cheese fight?

[Asker]

Ffs that would go down well woudnt it 🤣🤣🤣

[MiamiMadness]

It's worth a shot 🤣🤣

[Asker]

He will go absolutely mad. I dont even see how that would even count as an excuse

[MiamiMadness]

So he's really strict huh? I love business classes though so I can help? 😂😂

[Asker]

If you like 🤣

[MiamiMadness]

Ok DM your work hahah

[Asker]

Your on in the morning!

[MiamiMadness]

Looking forward to it lol

[Guanfei]

Yeah, one: work more. You didn't work enough before and now you're behind. There is no miraculous solution here.

[BulletproofNY]

Get your shit together and pass!! 😂

[Asker]

On it American boy 🤣😉

[KrakenAttackin]

Buckle TF down and get your work done.

[NYCQuestions1976]

The only answer is you have to focus and catch up.

[7771999]

Ouf. The parties are scary