Would you be the sperm donor for your brother if he couldn't have children?

[nice-girl]

Yes

No

Only if my wife/partner was ok with it

[TruthBringer]

Even though I don't have a brother, I would think really hard about this. Just imagine if the kid grows knowing I am the biological father. Every time he would have a fight with his dad (my brother), he/she would throw it in his face and say "you are not my father" and probably comes to me every time he got into a fight. It may not happen at all, but it sure opens the door for drama.

[Fenextra]

I would. If he asks me it means that's important for him and he feels ok about that, after getting sure that everyone is ok with that, even my partner (but I would totally try to convince her since is not really her business), i would totally agree. I won't feel like I am the father, the father is the one raising the kid and I'd be happy to give someone I love the chance to be a father

[MysteriousDarkness]

That would make me Uncle Daddy and him Daddy Uncle. All those who know about it would have lie to the child. On one side do those involved being you, your brother and his wife tell the child the truth about the situation when you think they are capable of understanding which could cause major trust issues. It could possibly cause tfe child to question a lot of things in yheir life like is anyone in their life who they say they are. On the flip side do you let the child live their life never knowing the truth?
I could not do it because I would want to be dad and not just a father. I would not feel like a man if I did it.

[Kreneman]

I would not ever do that because I am supposed to be the Uncle to my brothers kid not the biological father to my brothers kid especially I don't want to lie to my own kid saying I'm the Uncle while brother is telling the child he is the father.

[Don-_-Don]

That would be way too weird for me. I would be playing the role of an uncle when in reality I'm their biological dad. That would cause some future problems, I just know it. I couldn't do it for my brother, I doubt he would ever want me to do that for him either if he couldn't have kids.

[NewZion]

Maybe, but that'd be weird.

He'd kind of be a cuckold then.

Baby mama drama is all too real.

[Finchie40]

That’s a tough decision because technically it would be my child that he is raising, not saying I wouldn’t do it but that would be messed up lol I would be an Uncle to my child lol Just call me Uncle PaPa lol

[MrNameless]

That would be weird. It wouldn't be his baby.

It's one thing if a couple asks another woman to be the surrogate.. But this is just different entirely.

[jkm1864]

Sure if a contract was written out where I wouldn't liable for child support.

[TremorJay]

I'm on the fence, the only brother I have is half-blooded. I'm afraid I would want to treat the kids as my own

[OlderAndWiser]

My youngest brother is 60 years old. Not gonna happen.

[Anonymous]

Not unless I was fucking his wife behind his back.

That sounds bad, yeah, but it'd be way too fucking weird otherwise, if we both knew he was raising my kid.

[Anonymous]

No, because as much as I would like to help my brother, the laws are such that the mother is the one who has all the rights and, as happens so often today, she can completely screw over the actual father.

[ArcticBliss]

I use to think I'd be the surrogate for my siblings if they asked me to. I wouldn't want to.

[Harmonyxox]

I'd be a surrogate for my sister's if they needed one.

[Ripper_E]

No. I am not comfortable with that. My friend, yes. Not a sibling.

[Walrus_au]

Considering my little brother has been dead for nearly 40 years, I think I'd have to help out - talk about miraculous relationship!!

[Guardian45]

WHY WOULD ANYONE BE AGAINST THIS? Children are a GIFT that NO ONE should be denied!

[93_n_on]

I don't have a brother and if I did. That would still be a no

[Wise4myage]

I think Id consider that, IF I had a brother. I just have one sister.

[Kelly6]

Seen this issue but not in brothers but in close friends.
so he’s best friend was sperm donor

[michael1469]

Am i making a dorect deposit into his girl? Giggidy giggidy