I am torn between spending time with my family members and spending time with my boyfriend (fiancé)?

[Anonymous]

He wants me to move in and spend a lot of time with him. I love doing that too. However I feel I need to spend time with my parents. I talked with him and he very much agrees with it. However my sister who has a 2 year old always wants me to baby sit along with both my parents. I can sense that he is now becoming impatient with my sister. What should I do?

[The_Maphio]

Spending time with your parents especially if yours is a good family with great closeness, it's normal and understandable.
Your focus should go to your boyfriend though, as he will (possibly) the guy you build your life and own family with.
Spending less time with him could make him feel like he's a second fiddle, and that's one of the many reasons why couples break up. Make up your mind about your priorities, depending on what are yours, you might not be ready for a long term relationship.

[Anonymous]

well sorry but this is a red flag. he is marrying into your family and he's just now getting annoyed by your sister? this is how a controlling situation starts.

[lexiflexs]

Isolation is a sign of a mentally abusive and toxic partner. You have your own life outside of him - he needs to understand he can’t take that away.

[mintbloo]

totally agree. this is just the beginning of a toxic relationship. it starts out slow... be careful