How can I stop hating her?

[Aquariusmystery]

I can’t stand one of my boyfriends friends and I don’t really know why. Something about her makes me want to punch her in the face lol obviously I know it’s wrong and I wouldn’t do that.

i don’t wanna be a psycho and say they can’t be friends just because I don’t like her, so how do I stop hating her? I’ve met her once and she was just stuck up and so fake.

[HollyK21]

I’d say cut the girl some slack. Hate is a very strong word for someone you’ve only met once. Asking your boyfriend to drop her as a friend isn't an option, so for his sake at least, Maybe consider giving her another shot and get to know her.

[Aquariusmystery]

Yeah I don’t want him to lose a friend bc of me

[HollyK21]

Exactly. Trust me I’ve been there with a boyfriend who had a friend I wasn’t fond of, but to flat out hate her after meeting her once would only look bad for you. It gives the impression that you’re very jealous/intimidated and you don’t want to be that person. So give her a chance, like a real one.

[Aquariusmystery]

Thanks I’m gonna try my best

[HollyK21]

Very cool, good luck with all that☺️

[Paris13]

You need to Ask yourself: Why would HE like That for a Friend? I don't Blame you for Feeling like This. I'd be Pissed. Ignore her. Be Civil. Keep an Eye on your Guy. xx

[Aquariusmystery]

Well he says they get on well she’s just shy around new people but i didn’t think it was a case of being shy but then I struggle to read people’s emotions so I don't know

[Paris13]

She is a Fifth Wheel. xx

[Aquariusmystery]

What does that mean?

[Paris13]

She is Part of Like Your Relationship that Doesn't Belong. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to gag. xx

[PeterCharie1991]

Get to know her talk bout girly stuff etc, never know might become friends, you jealous of her?

[Aquariusmystery]

Very jealous of her. She’s basically a better version of me. She’s still blonde with blue eyes but she’s skinnier, older, has a better job, better home, better family etc

[PeterCharie1991]

Im a jealous person too, only think i can say try put the jealousy aside and talk to her you never know she may be cool , looks can be deceiving

[PeterCharie1991]

Has she got a boyfriend?

[Aquariusmystery]

Sort of. They’re always breaking up and getting back together

[PeterCharie1991]

You got nothing worry bout then, does she flirt with your boyfriend etc?

[Aquariusmystery]

No but she always complains about her boyfriend to my boyfriend

[PeterCharie1991]

Seems to me she sees your boyfriend has a friend, trust me you got nothing worry bout

[Aquariusmystery]

I hope so

[Iron_Man]

It’ll never work out the best thing to do is separate from that girl

[Aquariusmystery]

I have but I still don’t like her lol

[Iron_Man]

Do you feel that she’s a threat to the relationship?

[Aquariusmystery]

Not really but she seems a bit too close sometimes which I don’t like and I’ve told him that

[Iron_Man]

Keep telling him that maybe he will make a change

[No_biryani]

Tell your boyfriend you dont like her and he should try to keep you two apart

[Aquariusmystery]

I’ve told him and I’ve told him I don’t want them to stop being friends just bc of me. I wanna know how to not hate her

[No_biryani]

The only way to stop hating someone is to get to know them. The urge to hit them goes away once you have a connection with them

[Aquariusmystery]

That’s true. But how do I do that without inviting myself out with them?

[No_biryani]

You will have to go out with them or invite her over

[Aquariusmystery]

😅😅😅😅

[jjj101010]

Maybe get to know her more, may have just been a bad first impression

[Anonymous]

The more you hate Asian women and white men, the more you'll be bullied, piggy.

[Aquariusmystery]

Lord Saddler pretending to be a woman now🤣🤣🤣