Why is my ex-boyfriend acting wishy washy towards me, advice?

[Anonymous]

I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 weeks ago, and like right after that he was like " we are no longer a couple delete everything" then the next day he said we can be friends but that he thinks that we can never get back together, and that I can call him anytime. So then he started saying "leave me alone" alot. Then a week later I met him outside so he can give me back my stuff and so I can give him back his ring, and like he walked me back to the train station and waited with me there ( cause I was waiting on my bff ). he gave me a hug and squeezed my butt. then I started kissing him just to see if he was over me, then he started to get into it with me. then we had sex. then when he was on his way back home he called me and was saying how he wants me to find someone better. and then he said "ok pumpkin" then I said don't call me pumpkin if we are not together. then he said OK. then we talked in the phone at 3am. then the next day he told me to leave him alone. you see the pattern now. he acts like he wants me but at the same time he does'nt. also he tried to get with this girl he left me for last year but she found out he slept with me. ever since then he does not wanna talk 2 me and he changed his number. but it's like when he sees me in person he will act like we are together but on the phone he doesn't want 2 be bothered.

[coolbreeze]

Leave him alone and stop having sex with him and stop kissing him. He is playing games with you and is trying to run game. You have the conrtol. Just don't give him what he wants and try to move on from him. You are to good for him and he doesn't deserve somebody nice like you. He only wants to be bothered when he wants something.

[Asker]

so do you think he still has feelings for me but just wants to venture out a little?

[coolbreeze]

How was he acting when you were together with him for two weeks? I think when people break up that they do have some feeling for the the other person. I don't think it's fair that he wants to have sex with you but then doesn't want to be in a relationship. Unless you want to do the friends with benefits. He seems like he just likes to go out and talk to different girls. It all depends what you want otu of all of this? Why shoudl you wait around until he makes up his mind. That is not right.