Are women and children a drain on a man's happiness?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

No if a man is unhappy that's on him nobody is inside of his body only the person inside can control either happiness or sadness that's the bottom line that's the truth right there you can't blame anybody for anything

[Sarahr123]

Just like men and children are a drain on a woman’s happiness. A woman gives up her youth, health and body to make a child. What does a man give up? A woman gives up her family when she gets married and joins a new family and accepts it as her own... marriage is destructive for women far more than men.

[Apple1996]

No I don't think so? If they want childern and a wife then those things should be what's making him happy not draining the happy

[AviatorTom]

Quite the opposite. A family can improve a man's happiness many times over being a lonely single guy.

[northerngal]

Yes. Immature , selfish boys who cannot live up to their obligations are easily drained by anything other than playing games on their Xbox in their parents basements. Men on the other hand know that responsibility and being their for their kids is maybe the most meaningful experience they will have.

[Asker]

You call it selfish to want to have fun?

[northerngal]

Its selfish when all you want to do is have fun at the expense of others... especially your own children. And you may discover if you try that being a dad for kids is fun also. Kids rock. Trust me a real dad has plenty of fun.

[Asker]

No they dont have more fun than me

[northerngal]

Carry on then. Sounds like any kids you have may be better off with out you. The lessons you will teach them maybe the wrong ones.

[Asker]

Sounds like a plan to me

[Asker]

Lifes more complicated and random than the mind can imagine. So go ahead and tell me what I deserve like you know

[Anonymous]

Not if your SO is a partner in raising you kids, if you allow your kid to play you off each other you deserve every problem you get.

[Anonymous]

In combination with the current biased legal system, women and children are absolutely a drain on a man's happiness.

[Woke51]

No, they're the source of happiness if everything goes well. Your job is to make sure everything goes well.

[Asker]

Source of happiness?

[Asker]

So if they go away then you won't have happiness?

[Woke51]

You won't have that source of happiness. Doesn't mean you'll be unhappy.

[Asker]

So have you had a family or are you theorizing that it is a source of happiness

[boggboss]

They can be the same way any responsibility can be

[Asker]

Yeeah it's like a second job. And the guy is like an eager teenager ready to stop playing video games to get one. When its not worth it

[boggboss]

I wouldn't say its not worth it but fair enough if that's your opinion

[Asker]

The bible says it isn't worth it too, only do it if you can't stop your compulsion

[boggboss]

The bible says many things I'm sure u don't follow but meh

[Anonymous]

Yeap, same with a man child on ours.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

A bad woman certainly will drain your life away.

[Hangry06]

Yes ofc

[ChiPaPa]

Nope.