do you only accept it when you invite someone to offer criticisms about you?
kinda got a theme going with my questions today lol
Very open. But only if it's valid.
One issue many people have is they assume "opinion" to be the same as "valid criticism", when it not.
They also usually try and double back or double down with "oh it was just an opinion!" or "respect my freedom of speech!" when they get caught and called out.
Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has them, and they all produce foul shit in conjunction with the rest. But criticism is something very few people have a valid grasp of. It's more a schooling, rather than an education. Hence why very people can produce valid criticisms of subjects.
I'm absolutely and completely open to any criticism... constructive or destructive, requested or non-asked-for... stranger or known, informed or not...
I don't mind it, I welcome it if it happens, when it happens...
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if it is valid then it is great because it can make you improve, and if is not valid, oh well... you just brush it off and go on with your day and your life, no big deal
I am open to most all of it, as long as it is constructive and not just insulting. Like here is what you can do better, don't just say I suck at something without any input on how to do better. When stating how to do better, be specific, not just you have to figure out how to do this better. If it isn't helpful then I'm not open to it as that just feels like insults.
it depends If I ask about an outfit and you tell me it makes me look fat or something I won’t care. If you never seem to like my food then i’ll get pretty sad and upset lol, but if you criticize me without me asking you then I’ll just feel attacked and might get angry
your food looks good :)
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I very open. Well by definition a critique should help the person, so if it is given in that spirit, I’m very open like I said. But if it is just to tell me how much of a bitch I am… Save it!
but you accept from anyone or just people who know you well enough? or maybe even acquaintances?
Well, yeah! I wouldn’t want a perfect stranger to just criticize me? No, that is NOT okay!
I take criticism well. It’s funny when someone criticizes me and I catch them doing the same thing though.. I’ll take it all in and only absorb what I want though.
I’ll criticize you good ;)
I’ll take your criticism any day.. we’ll call it constructive criticism. Oh yes, please mold me into the type of woman you would want to be with!
*takes off belt*
here's tour criticism heh!
*pants fall off gets embarrassed* 😳
Wewww last thing I read before I shut my eyes. Let’s continue where we left off later. MUAH
Sent you a dm lol 😂
I don't pay attention to people who criticize me although if it is a deep one then it kinda hurts. I don't reply back to them unless we are bickering.
Even if it comes from someone you know well?
Thaaaaaat... really depends.
It depends on what it is about if I've asked about it, who gives it, and how and whether or not it's work-related.
Also, sometimes I'm in a vulnerable head-space.
I worked as a chef, so i got a lot of criticism coming and going. Plus i am bearded and that ! Oh boy, many can't handle it and they criticize me and a very judgmental way. criticism made me become a better cook.
@Mellifluous_ What do you think? Anything I could work on?
its ok she's mean to me too :/
jk
After a thorough search through every ounce of information at my disposal, i have come to the conclusion that you, mister Sonorous, are immensely open to not just criticism, but to a vast variety of other things of existence
@Mellifluous_ wow thats a lot of things :o
@Still-alive - Think of mister Sonorous as a taste tester of life's possibilities and variations.
@Mellifluous_ I've tasted a lot of life’s possibilities and variations too… but not as much as sonorous
*bows head*
Unless theyre better qualified and their teaching me they can shut the fuck up. It's why I couldnt work as a chef, I'd belt the first customer who can't boil an egg but feels they have to complain.
For me it's a mix between A and C. But I have a hard time taking criticism from people who have no reasons to criticize because they did the same I'm doing.
I´m open to criticism from nearly everyone unless it´s helpful criticism. I want to learn something from you critizing me because if I can´t you just waste time and we both don´t like that.
If I haven’t asked for their opinion, it’s not okay.
I dont accept criticism from other people only from myself
not even from family or friends?
I happily accept criticism if it's valid or at least is responsible explained. If people come and throw arguments at me that make no sense of have been proven wrong many times then I'll get annoyed quickly
i think my profession had made me accepting to criticism tbh n you can imagine what not a prostitute would have to face
Depends on the subject, my level of knowledge and skill vs their and whether their criticism is actually constructive or not.
I appreciate blunt, respectful, honesty. I’m always growing.
Very open depending on whos offering it (for instance your partner or a parent)
Depends on What I'm being criticize for. Sometimes I handly it better then others
As long as it’s valid, absolutely. What are we if we’re not listening and learning?
Open to criticism if done intelligently and constructively. Bashing and name calling just shows how childish and immature the criticizer is.
I don't get easily offended so I'm open to all criticisms know matter who
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