Was it abuse if I loved every minute of it?

[MrTaboo]

Some say it was child abuse. I was 15 she was 36. Not for me it wasn't.

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It was sexual. She taught me to be her Dom.

[hahahmm]

So I am not going to state the obvious about it being illegal...

Imagine a woman who wants to get pregnant by a 15 year old. Yes, they exist. The boy is then on the hook for child support and his entire life is messed up for sure. This decision should not be in the hands of an adult woman who can easily manipulate/fool a kid into doing stupid things. Yeah, adults can fool other adults BUT it's 1,000 times worse when one person has that much more life experience than the other. It's like a 200 pound boxer taking on a toddler. There's no such thing as fair and balanced or consensual really. Even tho, sure... most 15 year old boys (when I was a kid) did fantasize about grown women and didn't look at it as a negative if they interacted with one. But that's the child's POV and chemical lust. Not what is objectively best for the kid OR for society. Do we need or want more unplanned pregnancies or broke dads running around?

Parents are responsible for the safety of their kid. Some parents (hopefully most) would object to a grown woman distracting/manipulating their kid. One of the other dangers here is that the kid doesn't learn important things about socializing with people his own age because hey, he's focused on somebody old enough to be his mom's older sister.

That all said, MOST guys would not consider it abuse if it happened to them during puberty because males are hunters and are taught that it's their mission in life to get females. So whether it's abuse or not from his POV depends a lot on the outcome... does something bad happen or not. But we can't know these outcomes in advance so it'd be foolish to encourage/condone these kinds of relationships. There's a grey area tho... if a guy was in his late teens and he had sex with a woman... and now many years later he wants to complain about it, he won't get much sympathy from men. But that doesn't mean the woman is getting sympathy. I think she'd be less likely to get sympathy.

Personally, when I was a teen I would have been open to a woman BUT now that I'm older.. if I thought a woman was messing with a boy I'd be open to breaking her legs with a baseball bat too. She's not helping society and I'm all for doing what's best for the greater good.

[InvoluntaryCelibate9]

No, anyone who says so are jus speaking with their emotions rather than logic and thinking from a realistic standpoint, aka retards

[InvoluntaryCelibate9]

Abuse literally means to feel abused or taken advantage of. Therefore if you liked it and didn't feel it was abuse... Then it wasn't. No matter what the law says. You was not abused

[MrTaboo]

You'd be the first to agree that it wasn't.

[InvoluntaryCelibate9]

That's because I'm not a sheep, a lot of people jus copy the belief of everyone else around them in fear that they will be ostrisized or outcast from society... But I jus think for myself about what's right and wrong.. and that doesn't sound like abuse to me... I'm not too concerned with being like everyone else

[InvoluntaryCelibate9]

I'm jus speaking the truth lol

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Can you give more context?

[MrTaboo]

I lost my virginity to my babysitter at 10, she was 14.