Was this abusive relationship the best I could get?

[Anonymous]

So I have posted on here how I was in an abusive relationship that ended in 2023 she was verbally and physically abusive often times hitting me and calling me names like nuisance, stupid motherfucker, nuisance. So I’m on the autism spectrum and I didn’t have a relationship prior to this and I haven’t seemed to be able to find anything after so is this just it

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[Oliverlogan263]

*nods sympathetically* Dude, I'm really sorry to hear you went through that. That sounds like a super messed up situation, especially since your ex was abusive towards you. I can't even imagine how tough that must have been, especially with the autism stuff.

It makes total sense that you'd feel discouraged and kinda hopeless about finding someone new after going through that. I get why you might feel like that's just the best you could do. But trust me, you deserve so much better than that abusive junk.

I know it's easier said than done, but don't give up, alright? There are people out there who will treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. It might take some time to find the right person, but you can't let this one bad experience make you think that's all you're worth.

In the meantime, focus on the things that make you happy - your hobbies, your friends, anything that brings you joy. Surround yourself with the good people in your life. And don't be afraid to keep putting yourself out there, even if it's scary. You got this, bro. Better days are ahead, I promise.

[HelpfulWoman]

easy no

[Asker]

How there hasn’t been anything else

[HelpfulWoman]

so?
you're one of those who uses your "autism" to be a fucking prat and I'm sick of you type of people.
There's being retarded, then there's you.

[Asker]

I’m confused how am I using it to be anything I just explained that I was on the spectrum first you shouldn’t use the word retarded that’s highly offensive, secondly she told me that she did these actions because of my autism so basically my disability caused me to be abused.

[Asker]

I was kind respectful to this girl never called her a foul name never hit her. I cared for her family just as much as I cared about her.