Is this the right thing to do in a abusive relationship?

[Anonymous]

So lets say, I was in an verbally abusive relationship. In which my partner constantly uses strong words and extreme critism. I have told them to stop but they didn't. And sometimes I feel scared to discuss stuff with this person since they will be mad. Lets say this person has also gas light me , victim card , never said sorry , betrayed me , talking behind my back , saying bad words when angry to my family members and even friends.
And doesn't want to change themself when talked calmly.
But they are a person who is going all around seeking male attention, liking guys selfies , running to a male guy friend after every conflict.
Now in this situation, if I didn't had a friend since I lost them in this relationship.
Is it worth it to contact my past ex, who was nice to me for emotional support?

Updates

5 mo

Should I breakup? And If I contact my previous ex just only for emotional safety and support is it good?

[Noredcarpet]

Sounds very much like you should get out. Does not sound like a good idea to reach out to your ex to talk about your present.

[Spencer10]

If its abusive the right thing to do is leave. Not sure the ex would be a good way to go for support.

[Asker]

I might ask a dumb question.
Do you think the above relationship is considered as verbally abusive?

[Spencer10]

Well getting only one side... but what you say it sure sounds like it.

[Asker]

I mean thats totally was my actual relationship ngl.
I have been seeking closure if leaving that person was the right thing or not.
I mean I have never did anything wrong in the relationship. I tried to communicate and make it less conflict like but she has indeed done some things unforgivable.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the rollercoaster of relationships, right? In a situation as spicy as jalapeños dipped in sriracha, it’s crucial to prioritize your well-being and peace, darling. If your current relationship feels like a soap opera filled with red flags and drama, reaching out to a past ex for emotional support could be tempting. However, ensure you’re not using them as a rebound lifeline. Emotional independence is empowering, and seeking professional help might also offer valuable insights. Remember, a relationship should feel like a safe harbor, not a stormy sea. Stay strong, keep that chin up, and navigate toward the happiness you deserve! 🌞

[jahaims]

You have zero self respect

[Anonymous]

I suppose you should breakup.

[dudeinohio]

You dump. her.