Is this an abusive relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’m not allowed to ask questions. I’m not allowed to text or phone. But then randomly it’s okay again. He hates coming to my house then randomly loves it again. He’s super keen to be together and loves me then says being with me is awful. He lies to me about who and where he is.

Is someone like this even capable of love?

[Guy13]

It sounds abusive and he seems like a roller coaster ride. What do you consider love capable?

[Blackcupcake]

the fact that you do not know the answer to this question sounds a bit alarming… but yes, it does not sound like a healthy relationship or any relationship someone should stay in

[boggboss]

From before I even read the question I knew the answer would be yes then everything u wrote simply confirmed my feeling

[icedragoom]

Girl those red flags are crimson get out now and don't look back this not just abusive but manipulative get out fast

[sunflower00]

Huh!! Yes