Girls, Do you find it uncomfortable when guy friends pat or touch your arm, shoulders, hand etc non sexually?

[Anonymous]

Yes I find it uncomfortable

No I’m fine with it

[muscularbumblebee]

I’m not a touchy person so generally yeah it does make me uncomfortable. But depends on n the guy and how close we are and if I know his intentions for sure. If it’s a guy I like I’m obviously not going to complain about it either so long as it’s non sexual and not too obvious but from most guys (or girls) I don’t like it personally

[Ninania]

My boundaries are different with each person I interact with, but generally no.

[Asker]

What about the person determines what your boundaries with them are?

[Ninania]

My comfort level and our dynamic.

[Asker]

Does it change over time?

[Ninania]

Yeah, all boundaries can change either way over time

[Alyssa_11]

Very. I hate it. Don't do it lol.