Why do people think if a man doesn't respect his mother he won't respect other women?

[Anonymous]

Nobody ever says the same for women. I've meber heard anyone say how a women treats her dad will show how she will treat you. If a women treats her dad badly they assume he deserved it. If a man disrespected his he's automatically a misogynistic asshole. I have no respect for my mom. That bitch can die for all I care. Also who gives af if a women carries you for 9 months. I didn't ask to be born. You don't get pregnant for the baby that didn't exist before you let a guy cream inside you. It's not a sacrifice because the kid didn't ask to be born. And it's the bare minimum a women does for their kid is give birth. I don't remember my mom giving birth to me. I don't remember being in her stomach. I do remember 18 years of her abusing me. I do remember her allowing grown people to have sex with me and my sister when we were 14 and 9 so she could get money. I remember when she tried to poison me. That's what I remember. I don't respect her and I think it's stupid you're supposed to respect a women just because she carried you for 9 months. The real sacrifice s what you do to that child for its life and my mom sacrificed nothing. Just because I don't respect her doesn't mean I disrespect all women. I wish people called out toxic abusive moms as much as they did dad's because there's so many people with abusive moms who aren't allowed to talk about it because people pull that bullshit moms can't be abusive. She gave birth to you. She "sacrifced" 9 months that I don't remember and then gave me years of physical and sexual trauma that I do remember.