Are You Already A Daddy? If so, do you want more children?Author's Opinion:🤱 "I personally cannot wait to be a first time mommy. I think I would like to have five kids or more. Usually all the women in my family have a minimum of 3 children."
I do wanna have children of my own but at the same time I'm kinda ok with having no kids of my own aswell. I have a few female friends with children around me ( single mothers ) and I like to hang around with them and their kids. The kids also seem to enjoy me being around every now and then because they don't have contact with their biological father and I think they see me a little bit as the next best thing or something 🤷🏼♂️ I don't know maybe that's only in my mind but I enjoy their company. Always gifts for them and it makes me happy to see how happy you can make kids with just about anything 🙃
So for me it's okay in any way I guess
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That's very sweet. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer
Yeah I do but it seems girls or women have this weird imagination of the perfect man in their minds. Just like how some guys or men expect some porn star of a wife or girlfriend. I just feel like girls nowadays get validation on social media with likes 👍 and DM’s and that’s enough for them to cover the emotional damage they have from the broken hearts and scars of past relationships or giving guys a chance.
I know those experiences must suck but if a guy is genuine, independent, hard working and you dig him looks wise and he’s healthy, what’s the issue? I just feel like girls don’t want to get married or pursue relationships so what can I do? Nothing.
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This was super insightful! Very interesting perspective and I under your dilemma. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer.
I would but my life so far I haven't met a woman who understands what life is truly about. I found one but she can't have kids. Find a statistic that tells you the percentage of kids that have 2 biological parents of the opposite sex and you'll find iut kids dint gave the proper rearing.
Hopefully so. It will take time, but her and I both hope to try again when she’s in a better position. And that we acknowledge that there’s a special connection between us. A once in a lifetime sorta one.
No, I enjoy my freedom too much. I love travelling all over the world, that is very hard if you have children. I don't want to give up travelling, and both my girlfriend and me don't have a wish to have children.
To be a father would be a blessing! Raise up the next generation n teach them how things should be n not how society see it n show them true love n not what the world's love is
My oldest is 45. My youngest is 41. I have no special someone to have additional children with nor do I supply the needed sperm to produce another child of my own.
Nah. Not to my own child anyway because I don’t plan on ever having kids. Not sure how to feel about someone else’s kid. I’m bordering on nah to that too.
I love kids! Someday, when I'm a bit older, I'd love to be in a relationship with someone who I love (and loves me), and have kids who learn from us - but, we can also learn so much from children.
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I agree! Children can teach you a lot.
I do a lot of babysitting and I volunteer at the Boys and girls club. Kids are hilarious
It’s been my dream to be a father. I just wish I was already married with two children at least, working on a couple more. But I’m single, still a virgin and with no job.
I would love to be a father honestly, It’s a scary idea, but it’s also a thrilling one, something about seeing your kids growing up just seems like nothing can beat that feeling
Yes I do have kids already but I'd like to have more to me I can not have enough so to be clear it's not how many I already have or how many more I want it's just that I want more kid's. God Bless
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Kids are such a blessing! I can't wait to become a mommy.
I am already a father of 2 amazing toddlers I wouldn't change for the world no matter how hard and frustrating and challenging it is every day is worth it
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