When do you decide that you want to start a family? What about the opposite, when do you know you don't want a family?

[poneglyphs]

I'm probably not going to have kids because they are expensive and does it really change you?

[RobT312]

About a year ago I started getting the itch. Went on a family holiday vacation to visit grandparents and my sister brought my niece... I couldn’t stop carrying her around and wanted to be daddy at the beach. So... after getting married, we will prob. start quickly

[poneglyphs]

Aww that's so cute 😍

[RobT312]

Hahaa thanks

[NathanDavis]

nothing worth in life will be free... either the dedication and effort, or money... it will cost you something, lol

because it's worth

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really so you also eant or have kids?

[NathanDavis]

I'm single... have I decided on something?

no I will not decide on my own, if the time comes... we will decide as a couple

[poneglyphs]

Oh, okay does being in love change your reasoning?

[NathanDavis]

children is not something you order on Amazon when you feel like it... lol

there is a lot of things involved, yes... and other people as well

so yeah, ideally... you would have to love your partner and also the idea of having a family, in order to consider having a family

[Paulalove98]

When you're financially stable and have a steady income is the best and a stable roof for the child, also mentally, emotionally&physically ready which for me probably won't be till im like 26-29 for children or the latest 30-31 is my goal.

[Fuentes]

Your a smart lady

[Apple1996]

I didn't decide... I accidentally got pregnant lol. I did always want kids and so did my husband so it worked out for us but just started a little early.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, so for you it was the sput of the moment

[exitseven]

@poneglyphs don't you mean spurt of the moment?

[poneglyphs]

@exitseven yeah typo 😅

[exitseven]

We never really decide. Nature made the decision for us.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, yeah that is true

[Fuentes]

Children cost to much damn money lol and MOST people who have kids stay on the same level broke and unhappy. I had one kid early and learned the first time lol if i wanna start a family i better have it all or not at all.

[poneglyphs]

Damm for real so do you have kid then?

[Fuentes]

Yeah i had one at 16 lol i been said this like amillion times but i learned to not have another or start a family unless im hella fonacially secure that means take care of a women and kids and i don't beleive people can buil together thats rare everyone who does that ends up brooe unhappy and divorced and old and never moved up in life and been the same spot they were before

[poneglyphs]

Ahh, ikay damm that kinda sucks but now you know that it's not that simple