Do you have toxic parents? Why my parents ate toxic towards me?

[Sugar100]

I’m the black sheep & all my step siblings are the same age 35-40 and I’m 24. I’m left out ignored while everyone is talking of their home they bought and kids. My parents aren’t proud of me that I live alone in a studio house. My mom said she’ll be proud of me if I life with her forever only. They get mad wen I say I obviously live in a studio apt as I’m not 35 married yet with many kids, the point of a house is have partner have room to fill it with babies. They were only nice to me wen I was 22 sick had issue choking on food with anxiety 72lbs, they seemed to love me have no job sick, crying for mom. Now they hate me as I’m independent, they get mad I want save money & don’t me to have a boyfriend. They get jealous I see boyfriend weekly instead of them only.

[exitseven]

they got toxic after they got divorced.

[legalboxers]

both are.. my mom still is...

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Sugar100]

How are they toxic?

[Agape93]

Emotional neglect. Never told me they loved me or showed it.

Called me a dramatic liar when I told them my dad's brother was trying and wanting to hurt me, in that way. Even let him stay with us now and then and he was my designated babysitter. Didn't help I had no door lock so I literally would have to stay awake and block the door best I can, or fall asleep and risk waking to a nightmare.

Never was allowed any fiction, from games to books, as it was not based in dogma or god.

I wasn't allowed friends unless it was from church.

Always shit on my friends and lovers.

Blamed me for my own sexual assault and near murders

Etc.