Abnormal behavior?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I confront my son about something his done (not shouting at him) he always fidgets. Starts biting his nails and squeezing his fingers vigorously. Does anyone know what this behavior is about?

[OldWorldOrder]

Not enough information.

How old is he?

Where's the dad?

What are you confronting him about?

[Asker]

His 14
His dad is around
Things he’ll do like for example tear his sisters coloring book for no reason

[OldWorldOrder]

What else has your son done that you scold him for?

What is his relationship like with his father?

[Asker]

He does a lot of things that really we can’t explain. One time he got up in the middle of the night and took a shit in the same room he was sleeping with his siblings took a shit in one of their cups and then used his sisters clothes to wipe his ass.

[Asker]

His relationship with his father is weird his father tries but he for some reason always wants to be on his bad side

[maximumpower]

you're humiliating him and he doesn't like it.
keep it up and he'll grow to hate you.
ex did it to our son. he hasn't spoken to the bitch in years.

[Asker]

When I confront him I don’t yell or do it where there’s people. I just talk to him nicely.

[maximumpower]

would bet he's being polite to or feels intimidated by you.
try changing the dynamic (circumstances/setting of discussion).
destruction of sib's possessions is establishing dominance.
there's something more to it.
get his father more involved.
you likely won't get to the bottom of it until he opens up.

[MC1100]

it might be self injury

https://autism. lovetoknow. com/Self_Injury_and_Autism