Do you think 19 is too old to be disciplined at home?

[Liuz02]

[serious]

Well, it depends on your situation really. If you are above 18, you are earning enough money to support yourself and you are not doing anything wrong meaning having wrong habits etc then you should speak up, stand up to your parents and tell them to respect your privacy.

However, if you are not making enough money and are still financially dependent on your parents then yes naturally your parents will tell you what to do and what not to do, they will even try to discipline or control you also.

As long as your parents are not doing anything illegal, like resorting to emotional, mental or physical abuse or they forcing you to stay with them then they have the right to make you follow the rules because it is their house so it is their rules.

If you think you can lead your life independently and you don't want your parents interference then you can leave their house and then do whatever you want too.

Depending on your situation you decide.

[serious]

Thanks for the MHO

[Liuz02]

Yes, thank you for advice

[Liuz02]

Thanks for advice, I think I look to save to move out

[serious]

@liuz02

I understand and I am sure you will manage.

[BradBoy]

I don't think there's any answer to this. If you're still living at home, then you're not too old, because you're not old enough to move out yet.

[Liuz02]

Yes, true I guess.

[Blackcosmo]

If you live under their roof without paying then you need to follow rules of course. A 19 year old can make choices on their own because they're an adult but if you're not paying for your stay, then you can't do some things for example bring friends/partners home because maybe your parents don't really like that.

[Liuz02]

Sure

[IsoUser]

I couldn't agree with you more either get your butt into college or the Military an quit complaining about rules. Geez I raised two twin daughters and a son all of them went to college and graduated and living on their own. Now granted all three call home at some given point, Dad I need this X amount to pay for car Payment or insurance or whatever I don't care, I always help they are my kids, how could I not? If there is one thing that I taught my twin daughters and my son it is to be self reliant but never afraid to ask me or their mother if they ever are in dier needs. I have told all three that they can defer student loans for 2 years with no penalty and no interest to give them a breather to pay bills, rent etc. In order to keep up with current inflation and cost of living expenses and to do not use credit cards, I told them all if you can't pay for it in cash don't buy it Period.

[Liuz02]

@IsoUser yeah Sue, you sound like good Dad.

[IsoUser]

Not if you're literally living under your parents roof. You seriously should obey their rules. They are putting a roof over your head and a place to live and I quite literally sure feeding you. If you don't like it get off your Proverbial ass get a job and get your own place. Or get your butt in college or the military beginning and end of it.

[Liuz02]

I am at college and work part time also

[NathanDavis]

is not just about age...

if you don't have discipline... then you need discipline, even if you are 40 or 50

especially when you're living at someone else's house, lol

[Liuz02]

Yes sure, however I not mean in personal discipline but more in punishment

[NathanDavis]

well... are you being childish, immature, irresponsible and stubborn?

it really depends on the context and the situation

[Liuz02]

I guess irresponsible a yes sure, but aswell I think is normal for my age anyhow , I just not think is right.

[NathanDavis]

it is not normal... it is just an excuse, also a lame excuse

at your age should be either working or studying... and also aiming to fare on your own

if you act like a child, then you will be seen and treated as child, as simple as that

[Liuz02]

I study yes also I working partime waiting also, so I work a lot however I guess maybe not hard enough.

[NathanDavis]

what are you irresponsible with? or how... in which ways

[Liuz02]

I guess with going out, time I spend with friends and not concentrat on studies enough, smoking also

[Liuz02]

Is normal right?

[NathanDavis]

not really, no

and it is not good either

[Liuz02]

I guess you right, maybe I deserve this anyway.

[NathanDavis]

well... being irresponsible should not be rewarded, that is for sure

besides that... being irresponsible should not be overlooked, which is what I assume your parents re trying to fix about you

[Liuz02]

Is my Daddy , but yes I think you right

[Iron_Man]

You don’t have to spank
a 19-year-old LOL but you can cut his allowance off or something whatever

[Liuz02]

Yes sure, but you think spanking is no?

[Iron_Man]

I believe in spanking the kids but 19 year old they’re grown man That can fight in the war unless you wanna put the boxing gloves on and teach him a lesson

[Liuz02]

Haha;) yes sure I agree also,)

[Iron_Man]

Awesome thank you

[Waldoe]

19 is too old to live at "home"

[Liuz02]

Oh , you think so? I guess is difficult to study and pay rent aswell

[IsoUser]

He wouldn't know, he is essentially a PARASITE living off mommy and Daddy. Apparently to lazy to go to college and to afraid to go into the military. Just a freaking Idiot and disgrace

[Liuz02]

@IsoUser I do study at college and work part time

[exitseven]

If you are still living under their roof, you are still young enough to be disciplined.

[Liuz02]

Yeah sure, I guess.

[In_Trance]

Do you pay rent?

[Liuz02]

No rent

[In_Trance]

Then you get sent to your room.

You want freedom? Pay for it

[Liuz02]

I guess you right

[Anonymous]

Yes, its time to be moving out.