My dog passed away I can’t stop crying can anyone help me?

[Sugar100]

I can’t stop crying feel sick in my stomach. My dad called my crying cudnt speak. He was at a public laundry place and he didn’t have a leash on the dog, so he got ran over. We had that dog 15 years , me and parents loved that dog very much. Me and mom would always fight dad cuz he would not listen to us to put a leash on him. I felt god punished dad today by doing this and also like god planned my dog to pass away today. Very strange. Even tho it was my dads fault I felt god made this happen too. Cuz it’s not the first time the dog has no leash. He picked up the dog from my mom today this morning all to pass away… he might get cremated. I feel sick but don’t want think about it all day or all week. Cuz I have to work n stuff to do. I feel weird not good. 😓he was healthy still but he did live long happy life. He loved going to the parks run a lot.

[Agape93]

I'm sorry to hear, love... but you need to take time to grieve. It is going to hurt, a lot. You're going to feel sick, you're liable to be angry. And that's ok, it's how you start to heal.

Your dog went quickly, and after a long life with loved ones and happy memories, it didn't end with a lot of pain. So there's that blessing at least.

Dm me if you need to talk more.

[Sugar100]

Yea we had him 14 years, most dogs don’t live longer. It’s not realistic he would live 50 more years lol. He lived happy life but he was our family member so me n parents have never grieved so hard ever in life

[Blackcosmo]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Crying is normal and in time, you'll be able to move on.

[Sugar100]

Thank you. Is it normal love this dog like how I love my parents? We have never had a strong bond with any pet before. Only with this dog.

[Sugar100]

I feel sick. Like I can’t get his thought out of my head all day. I feel no desire do anything. Like empty in life.

[Blackcosmo]

It's alright. You had a deep emotional connection with your dog and I think it's really sweet. After some time you'll feel better and feeling sad is normal. But If you continue to feel like this for too long then you can try consulting a therapist. You don't want to go into depression because that's unhealthy.

[Sugar100]

I feel bad as my dad has see everything wen it happened. I’ve never heard him cry in my life. The dog was my dads best friend n died in his arms. I feel good planned the dog to pass today. It was not an accident.

[Sugar100]

God***

[Blackcosmo]

I know it's hard but death is natural and it happens to everyone. When you're time comes you have to go and death isn't going to wait.

[Sugar100]

I know I’m trying make dad understand dogs don’t live 20-100 years like us. I’m more worried of my dad. Him n that dog were best friends for life.

[Blackcosmo]

Oh I'm sorry to hear that. He's going to be sad for sometime but he'll feel better eventually.

[Sugar100]

Tbh that dog lived long, 14 years is a lot no? like he had him pretty much our whole life already. I don't know y parents thought he would live 10 more years it’s not realistic.

[Blackcosmo]

You're right. Even though they knew their dog was going to die some day, it's hard to accept when it comes. Time goes by so fast and we don't even think about it. Eventually they'll accept it move on slowly. Grieving is different for everyone.

[Sugar100]

How long do dogs live tho?

[Blackcosmo]

The average is 10 - 13 years but some can live longer.

[Sam_25]

@blackcosmo

But you lived more than 14yrs now. No? 😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 Dude go get a life and stop bothering me. You're so immature.

[Sam_25]

You're such a funny little girl
Pinch ya cheeks 😜😜😜.

Take care.

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 I might be younger than you but you seem like a child in the body of a 24 year old. Pat ya head.

[Sam_25]

I never doubt that you're the most smart & intelligent little girl I ever met in my entire life.

Love the way you explain. Your every comments are so intelligent that I'm became your biggest fan.

Trust me I'm not lying. 😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 You're such a goof -_-. Perhaps when you were 14 you were considered little because of the way you acted. Everyone is different if you didn't know that.

[Sam_25]

But here I'm appreciate your smartness & intelligent... than also mad on me?

😜😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 I'm just a normal 14 year old. My "intelligence" isn't remarkable. Maybe the 14 year olds you've come across are very immature so you think I'm the same and if I am not then somehow I'm "different". Also I already know you're making fun of me so cut it out because I'm not falling for it.

[Sam_25]

You're way mature than your age... I'm your fan. I never seen such a intelligence at the age of 14.

Why don't you trust me little girl? 😜😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 Because as you said I'm not stupid and you're calling me "little". I don't appreciate your mocking.

[Sam_25]

You have god level intelligence
If I knew you're near by me than I definitely run to you for your autograph. 😜😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 You;re mocking me -_-.

[Sam_25]

No girl I'm really sorry if you felt that way... but I'm not lying. You have god level intelligence. 💓

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 The first time I met you, you called me an animal. Now you're mocking me in the disguise of "supposed" compliments.

[Sam_25]

Because you put your nose in others businesses that time.. you don't even in the picture but you Jump.

But this compliment are real.
Bkoz I saw your comments most of the time it's genuine & really helpful. So I don't hesitate appreciate other smartness.

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 I get involved to defend people because sadly everywhere is crawling with toxic people.

[Sam_25]

First you have to understand the situation... I just comment and move on. They took that comments personally and felt Butt hurt. I just ignored those comments but then you jump from nowhere than I also start using names for you & other girls. You & that girls are really toxic that day.

And now I see your comments you're totally opposite I'm surprised 😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 It's not called being "toxic". Toxic people just hurt others for no reason. Defending is different. I know the situation because it started there and I can see the whole thing. I can defend other people and I will.

[Sam_25]

"defend the right people"
Anyway they say never argue with smart girl.

Good night 😜😘

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 I haven't defended the wrong person but maybe your views and mine are different. Sure good night.

[Sam_25]

Good morning & have a great day ahead. 😂

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 It's only been 3 hours -_-

[Sam_25]

Yo little princess I woke up very early at 5am everyday. 😜

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 It's normal to wake up early but 3 hours of sleep is too little.

[Sam_25]

Yes I slept late normally I took 7hours sleep minimum. Sleep is more important.

How many hours you sleep?

[Blackcosmo]

@Sam_25 Around 7 - 8 hours. On some occasions 5 hours is enough.

[Sam_25]

Cool

[Sparkie460]

It is perfectly normal for you to love animals like a family member. They are not pets, they become family. I've had dogs and cats all my life. It's so hard when they die. It will take time but you will eventually be able to move on. Get the dog cremated and bring his ashes home. You will feel just a little bit better.

[Sugar100]

He was my brother 😓 I’m trying be okay today but randomly I’ll burst out crying even at the store.

[Sugar100]

I feel so sick I wana vomitt.

[Sugar100]

We took him everywhere with us even on trips. He has at every home or room we moved into throughout the years.

[Sparkie460]

Believe me I know the pain you're going through. I've lost so many fur babies. The only thing that helped us cope is by giving our love to another fur baby. We lost our dog of 16 1/2 years last year. After searching for 2 months we got a new dog to love. He's not a replacement but a new love. You will never forget about him. You just need another " brother " to love ❤️

[Sugar100]

I can never in my life get a new dog 😓

[Sugar100]

I saw him just last week. 😞

[Sparkie460]

You say that now but if you saw a cute puppy face after you had time to grieve it might change your mind

[exitseven]

Sorry to hear about this. Losing a pet can be hard. There really is no upside to this. Allow yourself to grieve and try to dwell on the fun things you did with him.

[Sugar100]

Have u lost a pet?

[Sugar100]

Do u feel it was karma to dad? Like god punished him? My dad in past did a lot of bad things to mom n me. Also even tho it was my dads fault, I felt god contributed to make our dog pass away today.

[Sugar100]

Becuz dad always leaves the dog with no leash n nothing happens. So weird out of all these years only today he passed away. Like god planned it n wanted it be dads fault too.

[exitseven]

Yes, I had a dog and two cats. One of the cats was killed by a coyote during the day while I was at work. I always thought coyotes only came out at night. We found him in the woods a few days later. My daughter was the one to find him and she was crying.

[Sugar100]

I’m trying feel better but parents on the phone were crying of misery. I don’t grieve that badly. Cuz I don’t want get sick n need work tomrow n coming days do a lot of things.

[Sugar100]

Only I saw him one time a month n parents took turns take care of him as they don’t have a home to live in. Moms at brothers wife’s home and dad lives in car so the dog also lived in his car or at brothers wife’s home.

[Sugar100]

Did u have those cats long time like me? 14 years? Me n my parents had many pets growing up but this dog was special out of eveyone. I never took care of him as my studio doesn’t allow Pets. Not even apartments allow pets

[Sugar100]

Wut do u think?

[exitseven]

I just think the whole thing was a accident. Nobody is to blame. It just sucks.

[Sugar100]

My dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us. He took the dog for a walk to the store in front of the laundry place that was few seconds away. Then as they r walking back to the car, the dog out of no where goes walk calmly to the street.

[Sugar100]

My mom cud never rent any home due to no pets. I do believe my dad that our dog did this on purpose n sacrificed himself. He knew they suffered moved million of times n can’t rent any home.

[Sugar100]

I know that dog and he always walks in front of my dad or follows behind him. He’s very smart. I have gone on walks with him and he never randomly crosses the street. Never the whole 14 years we had him.

[Cubus]

I know how it feels. I lost two cats in my life. Stay strong

[Sugar100]

My dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us. Cuz my mom can’t rent any home due to no dogs allowed. My dad has left the dog with no leash 500 times and the dog is smart always obeys. My dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us  he died in dads arms.

[Sugar100]

They just took a walk to a store that was in front of the laundry place my dad was at. Then they were waking back to the car. But some reason instead of following dad he walked to the street.

[Sugar100]

He didn’t run to the street. Just walked calmly. It’s weird he walked the oposite way. I know the dog and he Always follows dad or is in front of dad walking. The store was literally few seconds away from the laundry place.

[Sugar100]

Dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us. Cuz he know mom is up n down renting different rooms in different homes n can’t rent any home as they all deny pets. So now we don’t need suffer anymore. He took his life for us 😓

[Sugar100]

I’ve lost Two special cats in my life too but this dog was 1000 times special to us in our heart. I lost my brother.

[clampfan101]

I certainly know how it feels to loose a pet. They’re part of the family. I especially miss our golden retriever. She was the sweetest thing on earth. It gets easier over time, though.

[Sugar100]

My dad is still crying for our dog. He’s taking longer to grieve and gets nightmares. Cuz he has trauma how he saw our dog as he passed away. I don't know what to do to help him.

[Sugar100]

He’s getting his ashes soon and a tatoo of the dog too

[Waldoe]

Crying is a perfect way to Honor someone you Loved... do not feel bad about it, whenever I cried over a Lost Pet... I would look to Heaven and say... "Be good to my dog" and I am sure God heard me...

[Sugar100]

But do u think god planned my dog to pass away today? I don’t think it was entirely dads fault

[Sugar100]

Cuz my dad has left the dog with no leash 500 times, y past years he didn’t pass away and just today? So strange.
My dad told me all week he wudnt go pick up the dog at my moms house. He wudnt make the drive and out of no where he picked him up today after all. My mom said dad told her he missed the dog. We were supposed to meet for his bday dinner today but he canceled as his car was leaking oil and then the dog died.

[Sugar100]

His bday was last wk by the way lol not today.

[Sugar100]

I felt god planned for the dog to pass today. He was 14 years old dogs don’t live longer than 15. I felt god wanted him live long life then pass away today
In dads arms. Me n mom wasn’t there. So weird. Cuz the dog was my dads best friend more than me n mom

[Sugar100]

My dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us. Cuz my mom can’t rent any home due to no dogs allowed. My dad has left the dog with no leash 500 times and the dog is smart always obeys. My dad said the dog sacrificed himself for us 😓 he died in dads arms.

[Waldoe]

sometimes an accident is just that... an "accident" no "grand plan" from God... just sad, and you are allowed to cry, I have cried over the death of every dog in my life... and there have been a lot, I am 72, my current dog is 4, I hope I out live him, but if I don't I will cry and be grateful for the time we were together, then I will get another dog...

[Sugar100]

It wasn’t an accident , it was meant to happen today. I feel bad for my dad. He loved that dog with all his heart he was his best friend forever.

[Waldoe]

then sit on Dads lap and give him a hug and tell him... you will miss the dog too...

[Sugar100]

I live in a studio , he lives an hour away , we didn’t meet today for his bday dinner at restraunt as his car got oil leak, then the dog passed.. week of bad luck. His bday was last weekend tho.

[Sugar100]

Feel silly give him a t shirt for his bday now, as the restraunt plans got cancelled and he won’t want a t shirt as hell want the dog back only 😔

[Waldoe]

It is hard, and he will be sad... it is normal, it is called Grief... just let him know that you care...

[Anonymous]

I had a rabbit pass away, and that was basically my only friend. if you have friends hangout with friends. Dont feel bad crying over your dog.

[Sugar100]

I had many pets in my life and they meant nothing. This dog was our blood, we love him as much as we love our parents. That’s how hurt we r right now. It’s not a stupid hamster or rabbit.

[Sugar100]

14 years we had him. It wasn’t a random cat we had one month lol.

[Blackcosmo]

People can have bonds with rabbits and hamsters so it's not stupid. You happened to have a bond with your dog and it's perfectly fine to feel sad but anyone can feel like this over any pet.

[Sugar100]

@Blackcosmo ik but he got me
Mad, I don't know if I mis understood what he said, but he said I’m wrong for crying for my dog. I just wanted him understand this wasn’t a random pet we had for one month. We spend 14 years with him he became our blood our real family, I feel I lost a real brother. I have had many pets in my life but none of them were special like him. Me n parents never cried or cared for our other pets when I was a. Baby.

[Blackcosmo]

Oh It's ok if you misunderstood and I think I understand why. When he said "Don't feel bad crying over your dog" it means you shouldn't feel wrong or weird because you miss you're dog and it's totally normal. He's also saying he can relate to you because he had a rabbit who was his best friend pass away and he was feeling the way you are right now.

[Opinion Owner]

no i meant keep crying, let it all out

[Blackcosmo]

Yes it technically means the same and I'm sorry for your loss.

[Sugar100]

@Blackcosmo I lost my baby brother , that dog was my little brother

[Sugar100]

I. Have to go to work now and my face is covered in tears

[Sugar100]

I can’t even drive or eat at all

[Blackcosmo]

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss and I hope in time you feel better. Take care of yourself!

[Sugar100]

@Blackcosmo thank u

[Blackcosmo]

No problem