Are there things that irritate you from one person, but you welcome from another?

[MysticDevice]

I have this one friend and she calls me "bud" and I hate it but its fine when a different friend does the same thing.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Anyone giving me a nickname (shortening my name), except just a couple of my friends lol

[MysticDevice]

I can relate 100% to that lol

[VIVANT]

Yeah tbh there are things that fit diff on diff people. I’m not sure if it’s unfair of me, or there’s some level of disingenuous im picking up in some. 🤔 🤷🏻‍♀️

[spartan55]

Any "bud", "bro", "bruh", or "dude" from a female towards me is met with hostility, or at the very least, Spartan side eye.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

Lmao I need to remember that, I call everyone dude 🤣

[spartan55]

Let me amend that. If I know the female well enough and we are cool I can make exceptions. Never right away.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao too many things 😂 fck i hate my hypocritical moments