If you could chose would you rather have a baby boy or a baby girl? Why or why not?

[Lucy68]

Boy

Girl

Both

Neither/Don't Want Kids

[MCheetah]

Option D: With my health/genetics, I'll NEVER conceive children, and would lock myself up if I ever harmed/tortured another human being by giving them my trash/sh*t DNA. If I was actually a tall, healthy man, then yes, I'd want children. But I'm not.

Back when I thought I'd actually meet a woman, fall in love, and raise a family, I always wanted to adopt a daughter (like from North Korea or The Philippines or something). A daughter because the thought of another me freaks me out too much and I think maybe my absentee Afro-Cuban drug smuggler dad thought the same thing about me. And yes, I know they wouldn't be "me" but if they were male, they'd take more after me. Where I believe a daughter would take mostly after her mom. And assuming I actually could meet a woman who loved me, I assume the mom would be pretty damn high quality and an amazing woman to take after.

So yeah. I wouldn't want to have kids with my jacked-up DNA, but assuming things were different, I'd want an adopted baby daughter.

If I had kids, I'd only want a daughter. A mini-me would freak me out too much.

[Cubus]

Girl.

[Cubus]

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[letuswaltzforthedead]

I honestly would like it if my first born was a daughter at least. I wouldn't mind if I dont have more daughters later on, even though that would be great too. I think there's many wonderful things about womanhood and they should be celebrated/treated as such. As for a son, I honestly wouldn't make a big deal out of it anyways. I do believe that raising a son is something I'd have to learn more about since I dont want to be a 'bad' parent who doesn't understand anything. As long as they're healthy. I see no reason to complain and even if they weren't.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d love to have one of each but ideally, I’d have a baby girl first. Thats my little mini me and I’ll just hope she gets all my good but doesn't take on my bad habits

[Apulu_Imback]

Either is fine. In future if I could choose which child then I will choose elder son and younger daughter. I always wanted an elder brother because it's so fun with my elder cousin brother. You feel that protective feeling. And elder brothers also adore their little sisters so it would be a cute relation between them.

[Keyboardkat]

We had three beautiful little girls. I was completely thrilled with my three "cubs," as I called them, and NEVER ONCE wished that I had a son or sons instead! They're all grown up now and have kids of their own.

[Apple1996]

I always wanted both girls and boys but now that I have 3 boys I can't even imagine what it would be like to have a girl so hopefully I just keep having boys

[HighValue]

I'd rather them instantly be 5 years old and school age. lol
I don't like infants or toddlers. They get on my nerves, but I am very good with kids 7 and older.

[Smashingdoozy]

Don't care... Why we treating kids like they're puppies/kittens

[AssholeNumberOne]

I don't want kids but if I did, I'd want an awesome son.

[Andres77]

We wanted one of each. Got two girls.
I was satisfied and had my vasectomy.
All good.

[Jamie05rhs]

Does it really matter? They're going to go trans anyway. Lol

[crmoore]

I wouldn't prefer one over the other, I'd like to at least have one of each.

[Guardian45]

I would be grateful to have a healthy baby of ANY sex!

[Anonymous]

A girl because I would feel bad to have a boy in this world. The world is very cruel for guys.

[Guy13]

Boys keep lineage. Both would be ideal...

[serious]

I never want kids.