Poll- do you spend holidays with your brothers girlfriend/wife’s family? Or do you spend holidays alone or with parents only?

[Anonymous]

Im 25 and I haven’t spent Christmas or other holidays in the past 2-3 years. I stay alone in my studio as my parents don’t own a home and spend all holidays with brothers wife’s family. I used to spend all holidays at brothers gfs families home and I got depresed as it’s horrible follow your brother and girlfriend 24/7. I got depresed as I wished I could follow a guy into his families home and life instead. 😓 I’m 25 and still have no guy feel proud stand next to me celebrating all holdiays with each other’s family. I can’t celebrate with my brother and wife as I’ll be alone while all his wife’s ssiters and whole family cousins aunts etc will be there celebrating with a boyfriend or man next to them. & I’m alone depresed weirdo alone 😓instead of being happy glowing having a man follow me

[chicosuave]

Easy. Lower you're expectations and you will find a guy. Most girls are single because they choose to. All you have to do is say yes to a date and you're set doesn't mean you are not attracted to him. You have to understand that attraction grows by knowing the person and dating them frequently. Good luck

[Asker]

My question was so you spend holidays with your siblings boyfriend girlfriend and her family? Or do u spend holidays alone?

[Asker]

I was dating a guy but we never meet family 1 year half we date and I know him 5 years as friends

[Asker]

So I want know do you spend holidays with your siblings boyfriend gfs family? I don’t think that’s normal for people to do that. Follow their siblings girlfriend boyfriend whole years

[chicosuave]

It's completely normal since it's you're family. I met a lot of girls who only spend time with there mom or parents for most of the time. Even with guys. I hang a lot with my parents Sundays because I call it family time. If my parents die I don't want to regret not having to see my parents.

[Asker]

I never said spend holidays with parnets!!! I said do you spend holidays with your brothers gfs family or brothers wife’s family!

[Asker]

Y no person is commenting yes I spend all holidays with brothers wife’s family or brothers gfs family? Who the fuck does that! That’s not normal!

[chicosuave]

Haha so you want people to tell you no?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I don't spend the holidays with my siblings' partners or my parents. I have my own life and children to spend the holidays with.

[Asker]

Is it good I stopped spending holidays with my brothers wife’s family?

[Asker]

I got tired of it and made me depressed 😞

[chicosuave]

Youlle be even more depressed if you're spending it alone later down the road

[Asker]

@chicosuave no I began get depresed age 21 as each year i continued be alone while my brothers gfs family relatives ssiters etc all had man partner next to them showing off taking pics in holidays. I don't know y no man wants stand proud next to me and meet my family 😔 I’m a serious girl I want marry I cook clean loyal, I don't know why that isn’t good enough to be taken women have guy drooling over u 24/7

[ZS007]

with extended family. my fam, my grandparents, aunts uncles and their families their relatives and some close family friends

[ZS007]

I don't have a boyfriend but I don't think I would be spending holidays at his house if I had one

[Asker]

Y not?

[ZS007]

a casual dinner I would find appropriate if all want to be there boyfriend girlfriend family but a holiday dinner is serious. I wondered why my cousin would bring her boyfriend to my aunt's holiday dinner she had asked her before bringing him. my aunt couldn't really say no either there was no apparent reason but they broke up and now there is a different guy to the holiday table. So holiday table= serious commintment, meeting whole fam that's how I see it, and it would be weird if in the end it didn't work out

[Asker]

Everyone brings their boyfriend gfs tho for holidays

[ZS007]

not really, my brother never did it

[Asker]

We’ll i no longer spend holidays cuz I refuse go spend it at brothers wife’s families house. Her cousins ssiters and sisters bfs husbands , aunts etc are my brothers family not my fmaily. His wife isn’t. My boyfriend. I won’t continue look like a retard alone while everyone is next to a man happy on chritmas Thanksgiving 😓

[ZS007]

they can get tiring when you have nobody to talk I feel ya. Maybe you could arrange a dinner on the one of the following days with the people you want there.

[Asker]

I can’t find a guy that likes me back that can agree meet my family or spend Christmas with me and family 😓

[ZS007]

then have one with just your siblings and parents 😁

[Asker]

I don’t want spend holidays at brothers wife’s families house and all thier partners!!! And me alone!!’ I shudnt be at brothers wife’s family’s home I shud be at my bfs families home have own life not be stupid little girl alone while everyone has a man 😓

[RuthlessAggression]

only child