My mom often tries to make me feel bad, how can I deal with it?

[erika25]

She always plays the victim, says that I don’t love her or “you treat me bad” etc. I literally do nothing, like all mothers and daughters sometimes we argue but there’s nothing unusual. I always feel guilty& unhappy when I’m with her and can’t stand anymore. I was making pasta and she said add some salt and I said yeah mom I know how to make pasta… It was just a joke and she haven’t talked to me like 3 days. Is it normal? I mean when she criticizes me or says something bad I don’t feel anything I mean she is my mother and think It’s normal? I’ve talked about this several times but nothing changed. What should I do?

[ArtemisSilver]

Just don't be there. Work more, study at the library, go to the gym mall or park. Just be home to sleep until she stops acting psycho.

If you can, move away.

[Wise4myage]

Then stop hanging out with her so much, and tell her why if she asks.

[erika25]

I told her everything over and over again but nothing changed.