Who do you vent to/call when you’re feeling down/inconvenienced/upset/happy/emotional 😭 ?

[Pinay_ako]

Do you call your S/O? Your parents? Your best friend? Or you keep to yourself?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Usually me and my SO vent out our daily shit with each other. I go to different people for different problems because of their expertise in each category. For example : If I have business/ financial / career questions, I go to my father. If it’s people/ emotional related or relationship related then I’ll go to my mother.

[Pinay_ako]

That’s so sweet 🥲

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I appreciate it! 😇

[Pinay_ako]

Your answer just reminded me of the song “Ode to my Family”. 🥰

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I was already listening to music so I looked it up. It’s very catchy, new song to add to the list

[Pinay_ako]

Yes by the cranberries. I can’t finish that song without missing my parents

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Aww I’m sorry homie ! Yeah it made me want to go see my mom and hug her

[Pinay_ako]

Yes please. My parents are a FaceTime away but hugging them in person is harder right now. Can you do that for me? Hug your mom tight! Thanks 🥹

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

For you I’ll hug her for a more than 20 seconds. Whenever I see my mom I always hug her longer than normal. I know I’m a grown ass man but when I’m in her arms I feel safe and at peace

[Pinay_ako]

Yes thanks homes 🥹🥹

[Alex8736]

The suicide help line

[Pinay_ako]

Uh are you alright?

[Alex8736]

It really helps especially when you are very overwhelmed or feel backed into a corner and is strictly confidential and NON-JUDGMENTAL

[Pinay_ako]

Yes we need those …

[Alex8736]

Plus so called friends can use what you say against you especially over little things like a petty spat

[Pinay_ako]

True. I’d rather sometimes talk to a random stranger on the bus 🚌 or plane… or them to me. Listening without judgement helps

[Alex8736]

Truth 💯

[LexiXide]

I can't tell anyone about how I'm feeling cause no 1 understands. i can't tell my family or friends bc i feel like theyve heard it b4 and dont rlly care so i dont talk to anybody. i find it way better to cry in a corner alone.

[Pinay_ako]

Oh honey, write it in a journal. Trust me it helps if you think nobody cares. It does help in unloading your emotions than keeping it in

[TammyVeracious_III]

There is an old man who I talk to a lot, he teaches me things about people and if I'm troubled I talk to him first

[Pinay_ako]

Who is he to you?

[TammyVeracious_III]

He's a neighbour!

[Pinay_ako]

Like a grandfather type?

[TammyVeracious_III]

A grandfather friend type!

[Pinay_ako]

Yes I had one ☝️ like that too at work. I don't know where he is now. 😔

[NathanDavis]

that depends on what it is... and how troublesome it is really

most things and issues I can deal and handle on my own, now... if things get really difficult or challenging, then I can definitely go with either of my friends, or family, relatives...

different problems might need different solutions or perspectives so, I try to go accordingly to that, lol

[MrPickles13]

Normally I'd talk to my best friend but she's been so busy recently I've not seen her in 8 months I've barley haf a conversation with her as I don't want to annoy her as I know she's busy but she dknts try to contact me and it seems I'm the only one really putting in any effort to the friendship atm. And well I just don't know what to do anymore.

[Pinay_ako]

How about your family?

[MrPickles13]

I don't get on to well with family and well are sometimes the issue to talk about.

[Pinay_ako]

Sorry to hear that

[Ευδεμονια]

I usually try to keep it for myself and I manage to solve things alone, I don’t like bothering others… but when I can’t find a solution or things feel too big and I feel overwhelmed, I tell things to my best friend and sometimes to parents. They give me support and advice.

[VIVANT]

Stuff that _really_ bothers me I don’t talk about with anyone I can’t share stuff I feel intensely whether good or bad.. If I’m well, I’ll run it off. If I’m sick, I’ll write or sleep.

[VIVANT]

Haha that pic is cute tho

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 that’s why I had to use it. 😜 thanks 😊

[Chazmatazz269]

Yo! Did you read my mind?
My next question was going to be very similar to this!

[Pinay_ako]

I’m fbi 😜

[Chazmatazz269]

Haha!

[KrakenAttackin]

Men really don't get to vent as no one cares.

[Pinay_ako]

False! I’m all ears! What’s your problem?

[dustybiker]

I’ll write down things that bug me. I’m stubbornly self-reliant. And I dislike bothering people. I usually only share silly irritations that can be used as humor. The rest people figure out before I share.

[crossdressingrihno]

I avoid letting other people know my pain. Sometimes i might vent about a broken bone or maybe the fact I didn’t have anything cook with other than a microwave. Even then those actually surface level

[RavVid]

I'm a guy so I keep it to myself and go into my man cave.

[Xtendable]

I process it inwardly. That’s not always a good thing

[Pinay_ako]

Nopppppe

[ObscuredBeyond]

My grandma is my go-to vent if I have no other options, though she struggles to understand some of what I tell her.

[Still-alive]

I got certain people i can talk to on here ;)

otherwise though i wouldn't say i vent much anymore i just express my feelings in the moment when it happens. But it is nice to have people to go to when im just not feeling right.

[Still-alive]

to further elaborate i try not to let things bottle up inside me like i used to in the old days. i just try to keep calm as much as i can and express myself in the moment when something bad occurs and also try to not let it even get to me too hard in the first place.

[EaterPeter]

Lonely
I am so lonely
I am so lonely
I have nobody

[Pinay_ako]

You’re Mr. Lonely, a lonely soldier away from home 🏠 🎶

[EaterPeter]

Like korean tv show?

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[bigpauly]

Usually my bestie and or my little sis.

lol at the pic 😂

[Pinay_ako]

That’s how shorties get mad 😡 🤣

[bigpauly]

🤣🤣 very intimidating

[Pinay_ako]

Hell yea. Especially those baby angry 😡 😤 steps. Move out of their way! 😂 😝

[bigpauly]

Yea you don’t want to be hit with the tiny balled up fists! 😂

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 those fists are mighty! Have you seen baby fists? They don’t let go! 😜

[bigpauly]

Lmao so true!

[JosyJosy]

S/O if it's something big or something little that doesn't go away. Friends if it's just something little.

[ChiTown33]

Generally I keep it to myself unless there's a specific reason for sharing it with a specific person.

[moonpie89]

Haha I call my guy for any little inconvenience. I'm like babe they made my coffee wrong 😭😂😂😂

[magiusX26]

no one in particular and only a fraction 9f it when i do at all.

[Rangers]

My girlfriend, of course. She's the only person I want in my life

[ArtemisSilver]

Well being a man, nobody really gives a shit so I just keep it to myself usually.

[Andres77]

Lay it on me, babe!

let me share your pain!

[Fuentes]

I don't like to listen to other people's problems so i don't expect others to listen to mine

[redbeardsley91]

My best friend. I know she's gonna hear what I have to say.

[beebella]

GaG, apparently. 😭

[Still-alive]

My dm's are always open lol

[beebella]

I know. I appreciate you, Doug. 😋

[Still-alive]

awww friendies!

[Pinay_ako]

Therapists always on standby 😆

[Still-alive]

Haha i just like helping people. :)

[Dinklex3]

Mom and best friends.

[rosemilk]

my partner or just myself.

[Spotifyplaylist]

I keep it to myself.

[sirderpsalot123]

I just keep it to myself.

[JaxiCats]

All of those said in the description

[Jerre]

Just keep it to myself

[Jerre]

@Pinay_ako Thank you for the Like

[TallAnon]

Nah, men usually bottle it up

[Zolly99999]

Right now I keep it too myself 😔

[jimmy2]

I call up on the Lord

[BlueScorpio]

I usually tell my mom first lol girl talk.

[melanieeeB]

Mu journal lol

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend