How can I stop feeling alone?

[Anonymous]

I have two close friends who talks to me 3-4 times a week.

I have family members but we all have different personalities so we only talk 20 mins per day.

It's evening, I have all night to myself and I feel so alone now.

I feel stuck in life and don't know what to do. Feel like everything is changing. 😭

[ohsheeT]

Let me ask you something when you're feeling alone is it because you want to be with somebody you want that physical touch that companionship or is it just inside your body your mind that you just feel that nobody's there

This is a hard question to grasp but when it's easy to usually I'm dating somebody and since covid-19 I haven't so I understand what you're feeling to a point we all have an energy within us I believe it's our guide and our teacher and it warns those things when that energy becomes one with somebody it is the most beautiful feeling in this world 24 hours a day it's just unreal beautiful and when that energy connects with somebody they want to feel that connection too and once you have felt this you will absolutely crave it but at the same time if you know exactly who you are it says if it's a spiritual being that lives within you and you're content I'm an invert and I enjoy being quiet and doing my own thing but I do miss the physical touch or physical kiss in slow motion with somebody so I hear what you're saying I understand what you're saying that is the same time I know who I am and this is just a moment in time in this moment we'll pass in a new one will come I'm curious of what you mean about being alone

[Asker]

Alone as in I want someone to talk to and exchange positivity. Environment in my home and outside weather is both miserable and i frequently have to adjust my needs. I'm sick of people I live with and need them to go out for a few days, but it's not possible. They're ruining my dog's health too and spoiling all the training I gave him. Doctor said not to give our dog any salty, spicy or sweet food but my father keeps giving it at every chance he gets and doggo is really spoiled now, he even left my side because my father keeps spoiling him and as a result he become more aggressive and now they're telling me to handle the dog. I feel like I'm a nobody right now, no one takes my logical advice seriously. I refused to handle it and told them to take responsibility for their own mistakes, so now he is dealing with it and my father's being disrespectful to my mom for trying to take care of the dog's health.

[ohsheeT]

Yeah kind of sounds like you need to break yourself to you know when things don't go our way we get pissed off we get upset and we kind of just go off the handle not even thinking but what you have to do first of all if you need to talk just send me a message DM me if I'm on I will answer you and when I get back on I will answer you that's for your dog you have to think about the reason why your dad's doing it first of all he could do it because maybe he wants to be a nice guy and he wants that dog to love him he's doing it maybe he's looking at the dog as a grandkid he's doing it because you can do it so you take all those three reasons sit down next to your dad one day and say Dad can I borrow your car they are put gas in it I'll fill your tank up and if he says yes right before you're leaving say I'm going to put diesel in it this time Dad because I think it will run better he will flip out or you take his car you drive it whatever and when you get back you tell him hey Dad they were all out of gas so I put diesel in it some guy told me your car runs better on diesel anyway and he will flip out let him say whatever he has to say let him then let them get excited and pissed off they say I don't understand why you're so pissed off I'm just doing the same thing you're doing with my dog I tell you not to give him certain things and you do it sure I know better you're not supposed to put diesel in it but I figured since you were doing it to my dog I might as well think for myself and do it to your car too maybe then he might understand what you're trying to say and when you're living with people that you dislike you're going to end up becoming an angry individual nothing's going to go right you're going to be pissed off all the time so there's only one way to fix that and that is take away the anger take away the pain the hurt and try the different way

[Asker]

Thank you so much, I'll dm you soon and the problem is that my dad thinks that since he bought the dog, he can do whatever he pleases. He won't listen to us, he's very stubborn and closed minded person.

[ohsheeT]

Well it sucks because human foods bad for a dog anyway

[_Roc_]

The answer is nature. People gather create society so they can beat the nature. But when they do that they didn't know they are going to break up with a very close ancient friend nature. You need to sit and look around. Thinking by yourself maybe it can help u.

[Anonymous]

ask your friend to talk to you more? talk to them more?

just because you're alone doesn't mean you can't enjoy your own company. find a cool thing to do for yourself, self care, learn a hobby, etc...

[Asker]

Yes, I'm painting, reading something I want to learn about and just chilling today :)

[Opinion Owner]

yes! proud of you

[Anonymous]

Have online friends... that's it.