If you were living in Taiwan, what would it take for a childhood friend to convince you that moving to Sweden would be better for you?

[Anonymous]

My family moved to Sweden when I was a kid. A friend of mine I found on Facebook is still living in Taiwan. I offered her to move to Sweden and marry me. I would pay her travel expenses for her. She said no. I tried to convince her a few more times, still no. I contacted her father and suggested it to him, he thought it was a good idea but she got angry at me for writing to him, and she stopped talking to me for a while, but we are talking again.

Considering how China treats Taiwan, it would be a lot safer for her here. If she marry me she would have a loving and caring husband. She might not be able to talk to many people until she learns Swedish and English but thats not a big deal, I can help her learn.

[Adam1978]

You are clearly a nut job if you propose such a thing directly. You are really dismissing her and her situation. It's very ignorant to think that every Taiwanese life would be better if they moved to Sweden. She made the only and correct choice and rejected you.

[Guy13]

China builds one of those little round islands that is weaponized 75 miles off the coast.

[Agape93]

Help me arrange citizenship, learn the language and help me get a job and home.

[Asker]

I would help her getting citizenship, she would live with me and I could help her learn Swedish and English, she still does not wish to move. Once she has learned enough Swedish I could try help her get a job if she wants to.

[Agape93]

Why doesn't she want to?

[Asker]

I belive the language barrier is the main thing. She only speaks Taigi and Chinese. So for a while she would mainly be able to speak to me.

[Agape93]

Understandable. Plus culture differences can be a hurdle

[darline19]

I think she has no romantic feeling towards you