Would you move to another country for someone you love or like? Have you ever done that?

[LiaRaven]

[BCRanger10]

NO!

Moot point anyway, since I'm married. I just wanted to do this 😆😆😆

[LiaRaven]

Lmfaooooo😂😂
You made my day lol

[BCRanger10]

Here's another one you might enjoy. So... enjoy 🙌

Are British people evil? ↗

[DishLady]

So basically if folks didn't move to be with the one they loved I wouldn't exist. Generations of guys and gals in my family have put their lives and hearts on the line to follow love with only one or two minor casualties.

Ironically, I'm the one who stayed put and married close to home... and I'm the one who ended up with a miserable divorce. Geography isn't what makes or breaks a couple. Either you're compatible or you're not.

So now tell me why you're asking the question... Or if you don't want to put it all online, make a pro/con list of what moving will mean for you and for your guy. Be brutally honest with yourself, see which list is longer and go with your intuition. Be true to yourself above all else, love. OK?

[LiaRaven]

I am sorry about your bad experience
And thank you for your explanation🙂

[DishLady]

It’s ok. It’s been a while now, so it’s behind me, but the irony is there as a life lesson to anyone who’s questioning themselves about making a big move away from family and friends for someone they think they know and love enough to make a new life together. Make sure you’re both on equal footing with the move, the new jobs, etc.

[LiaRaven]

Off course

[midnightmoon05]

My brother in law moved from France to the US … happily married to my little sister and expecting their 2nd child. People do… depends on situations…

my hubby and I moved states (9 hours apart) to a new state and happily married.
so yea.

[LiaRaven]

very nice stories 🙂

[midnightmoon05]

You considering?

[LiaRaven]

Considering what lol

[midnightmoon05]

Move to another country.

[LiaRaven]

I don't know, I like to explore especially if it's with the person I love

[midnightmoon05]

A lot of factors to consider. Good luck

[LiaRaven]

Good luck to you too

[Levin]

She'd have to be the love of my life, and be assured that her country is a better option.

As shit as the UK is, least we don't have to worry about healthcare. And I have lots of annual leave in my job. Can't be doing with the 10 days of annual leave US bullshit.

[LiaRaven]

You have Healthcare and annual leave! That's very good lol

[Levin]

Impressive huh 🙂

[LiaRaven]

Yeah lol

[Levin]

I feel like you're being sarcastic 😊

[LiaRaven]

No, not at all the irony is that you are right lol😅

[Levin]

Are you from the US?

[LiaRaven]

Yeah

[Drumlin2001]

I wouldn't be totally opposed. But would need to have adequate resources and/or opportunity for work to be comfortable. My OH is from another continent. Her home country isn't great unless younl have a good amount of money. I also dint speak the language

[LiaRaven]

Valid points

[Iron_Man]

Im an American citizen all my connections are in the USA I own my own house. What the heck would I do in a foreign country that I don’t even belong to? It’s much easier for the woman to come here if it works out then get married I couldn’t even work in a foreign country and they set deadlines for me to come and go

[LiaRaven]

Which country was that?

[Iron_Man]

I’m pretty sure most foreign countries have deadlines and give out certain amount of time

[msc545]

I once lived in Mexico to live with a woman I met here in LA who was on vacation but lived in Mexico City and had a business there.

It went well for the first two years, but then, of course, che cheated on me and I found out, and left. Very predictable.

[LiaRaven]

That's nit a good experience

[LiaRaven]

Not*

[msc545]

No, it was not, but I expected it.

[DJB72]

Emigrated to marry the girl I loved in 2003. We moved countries twice while we were together. She passed away last year after 23 years together. Now I'm trying to decide what country to raise our son in.

[LiaRaven]

So sorry about that

[DJB72]

Thanks

[Shiprex]

Yes
Yes

I would because another country is like a new chapter in your life. If you're both together in a ride or die kind of relationship then it's good to have someone there you can trust and tryst with.

I moved from my home country of Scotland to Hong Kong then to Czech republic and now Sweden. I now have the likely outcome of moving BUT it's not likely to be reciprocated so the end of something and beginning of something different.

[serious]

No. I have always been love. Neve been in love so what is asked in the question will never happen. Neither will someone come to my country and nor will I go to another country for love.

[LiaRaven]

Who is love exactly

[12karen]

I haven't but yes, I would if I am 100% sure it's really worth it.

I would only if he loves me back, as much as I love him

[LiaRaven]

That's very nice🙂

[Kelley1]

I don't care what country we live in provided my husband is good-looking, smart, and earns a lot of money.

[LiaRaven]

Lmao

[PeachyPie93]

No I did it before but I just don't see it happening again unless he was the love of my life lol.

[LiaRaven]

Fair enough lol
Which country did you go to

[PeachyPie93]

The UK..

[NathanDavis]

I have never done that before no...

but nowadays, yes... that's a possibility I would not rule out

[NathanDavis]

wait... if such place is hotter than Texas, I would probably rule it out

[LiaRaven]

Never been to Texas before, is it very hot there?

[NathanDavis]

only when the temps reach around 120F... yeah

[LiaRaven]

WHAT!!!
That's insane lol

[NathanDavis]

it's Texas

[slatyb]

I'm happily married, but if I were single again I would search very widely and would consider moving to another country.

[LiaRaven]

Are you happy with your marriage?

[slatyb]

"I'm happily married" She's quite attractive and very sweet.

[LiaRaven]

Very nice🙂

[Nikki1989]

I moved to my husband's birthplace, but we both wanted it.

[LiaRaven]

From which country to which country?

[Ferngully2000]

If I was in love with them and they were worth it, then yes!

[LiaRaven]

Fair enough

[QuineJessica]

Definitely!

[NicholasRedone]

@liaraven don't fly south for the winter lol 🐦🕊️ embrace raven, the local males of singledom males lol 😆

[LiaRaven]

Haha
I like your comments lol

[Joshydavid25]

I've been interested in girls in other countries before.. So, yeah I probably would if we actually grew in love..

[LiaRaven]

Which countries, joshy?

[Joshydavid25]

Hmm let's see.. Canada, the UK, The Dominican Republic, and Japan.. 2 of them were brief, and the other 2 I actually planned to visit..

[Joshydavid25]

And the Cayman Islands too.. But she was in Florida..

[LiaRaven]

WHAT!!!
All these, and I thought that we have chemistry lol

[Joshydavid25]

😂😂.. These were in the past.. The most recent one was the UK, and that was 4 years ago..

[LiaRaven]

Now we are talking lmao😉

[Joshydavid25]

We sure are Lia.. 😉..

[LiaRaven]

Lol.

[Joshydavid25]

😂... You hit me with the "Lol."

[LiaRaven]

I hit you with this 😘

[Joshydavid25]

Now that's more like it..

[LiaRaven]

You are so silly 😄

[KittygosMeoWW]

I’ve never done it I’ve never even moved in with someone. When my ex and I live together, he moved in with me. I’d be so scared to do that because of my history.

[LiaRaven]

What history? You mean because you've never moved before?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Dating history

[LiaRaven]

Oh, ok

[RavVid]

I might to find the right girl. Only 0.75 mill 20's girls here but other countries have many more millions of them. Why not go to where there are plenty?

If I did I would settle down in her country.

[molonski2]

Hell NO ! Who would possibly consider that? Someone from a third world backwater.. Red red flag. You certainly wouldn't be moving from USA or Europe.

[exitseven]

I might move to Canada but not to Europe or some other place.

[LiaRaven]

Why Canada?

[exitseven]

I is close by and it is almost like living in America.

[LiaRaven]

That's right

[KostasKouvalis]

I WOULD, though it depends what country it was

[LiaRaven]

Where do you live?

[KostasKouvalis]

California

[LiaRaven]

If you live in US, which country you feel you wouldn't go to?

[KostasKouvalis]

Pretty much anywhere outside of Europe and the Anglo countries

[LiaRaven]

Okay

[Bklynbadboy12]

I haven't but I would. I know that sounds sappy but I'm a sucker for love

[LiaRaven]

I know you are lol

[Bklynbadboy12]

😉😉😉😉

[Cormac995]

As long as it's not China, Russia, Turkey or anywhere east then hell yes in a heartbeat.

[Crazzyyworld]

It happened to me once. He was from Germany and wanted to move. I was scared of moving to Europe because they are rigid and traditional. I was working as a gay escort that time. I wanted to become an actor so moving to Germany will destroy my dream. But I regret that I didn’t go. I needed older man’s care and I could have been good under his care.

[HungTexan]

I would do it! I haven’t, but I’d definitely move for real love.

[Anonymous]

I'm a heiress so I can't because I will get a lot of house and stuff in some years and I need to stay in my country to take care of it but if I didn't then I would have been willing to move.

[Anonymous]

Yes I would, any country is better than the one I'm currently living in.

[LiaRaven]

Where do you live?

[Opinion Owner]

In Croatia.

[LiaRaven]

Oh, ok

[Anonymous]

Maybe. But most likely it would be an established long term engagement and she then moved to another country and I followed. But it would need to super serious.

[Staximus]

Only if I knew them in person before they moved to that country. I don't believe in that online fake relationship crap

[Changiis07]

No I wouldn't but it depends how both are invested in the relationship. I wouldn't want to do all the work and we would have to be engaged or married to do that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not unless nationalism ends so I don't have to fear deportation..

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck no. Shit I won’t even move two blocks. But if I did she’d have to be one hell of a woman.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Before my marriage, I wanted to go.
But not went.

[Valdemort]

I haven't, but I would and almost did.

[LiaRaven]

Which country

[Valdemort]

To the US actually!

[LiaRaven]

Where do you live?

[Valdemort]

Netherlands :)

[LiaRaven]

Stay there lol 🙂

[AManOnTheWeb]

If my life had gone a different way earlier on, I'm sure it would have been one of the possible outcomes.

[Claraaaaaaaaa]

I haven't yet. But yes, we are planning to move to another country with my boyfriend soon.

[QuineJessica]

What country?

[Claraaaaaaaaa]

We want to live in Italy or Norway. Maybe we can consider living in another country. My boyfriend and I are researching which country would be easier to move to? 😄 Where do you live?🙂

[QuineJessica]

Nice ! France

[Claraaaaaaaaa]

If you don't mind, I would like to send you a message. Can I ask you a question about France?

[QuineJessica]

Okay

[Claraaaaaaaaa]

Thank you. I can't send you messages because I'm a 1xper. If you message me I can text you

[QuineJessica]

Yes , why not. If love is true it's worth it 💓

[ariadneR]

Absolutely.

Already did

[LiaRaven]

From which country to which country?

[Awesomemegx]

For my love, I'm ready to move into some other country and ready to start a new family

[douride2]

I wouldn't move across my own country let alone move to a different country. No it wouldn't happen.

[Dargil]

Considered it but didn't think I could earn a living.

[DrPepper12]

Probs. 30+ years ago.

[LiaRaven]

Do you have a partner?

[DrPepper12]

Yes.

[LiaRaven]

You don't need to travel if you gave a partner lol

[LiaRaven]

Have*

[KrakenAttackin]

If a man moves to be with a woman, 9/10 times she loses respect for him.

[LiaRaven]

Huh?🤯

[KrakenAttackin]

It's true.

[LiaRaven]

May I ask you from where did you get this info? Is it based on statistics or something else?

[DishLady]

You think so? I think it sort of depends on the situation. No?

[LiaRaven]

@DishLady help me😭

[DishLady]

@liaraven, What's up? Don't let the old @KrakenAttackin scare you...

[LiaRaven]

@DishLady he isn't scare me at all, but I just want to know how he is thinking lol

[DishLady]

He's a good-but-strong guy, which is hard to be in today's world, that's all.

To be fair, a lot of women out there will make a guy nuts for no reason; displacing yourself for the sake of a woman who just wants a guy to jump through random hoops for her DOES lead to loss of respect. However in situations where the moves are mutually beneficial and grounded in true love... it's worth it. <3

[LiaRaven]

@DishLady thank you for your explanation💜
@KrakenAttackin here you go😌

[KrakenAttackin]

@DishLady Ok, I agree with this. I would say if she is putting her career ahead of the relationship and the guy is putting the relationship ahead of his career, this won't work.

[LiaRaven]

@KrakenAttackin you never quit, don't you lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Nah, I guess not. Tenacity is a thing with us cranky old guys.

[DishLady]

@liaraven 😂 No, he doesn't, but it keeps this space interesting.
@KrakenAttackin You're right. Both people need to feel like they're on equal footing in love and in life for a relationship to work. (Try not to scare the young lady next time. This was just a simple question she was asking.)

[LiaRaven]

@DishLady he is entertaining, I like him lol
@KrakenAttackin you are not even old lol

[DishLady]

☺️❤️

[KrakenAttackin]

I am actually 55 not 45. Sometimes I feel 30 and other times I feel 75. The older you get the faster time goes by.

[LiaRaven]

@KrakenAttackin even 55 isn't that old
But, why did you change your age?🤔

[KrakenAttackin]

I put the wrong date in years ago accidentally and GAG doesn't let you edit anything.

[DishLady]

@KrakenAttackin They do if you harass the admin enough.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DishLady Ah the admin... They have put me in the penalty box more times than I can count.

[DishLady]

Well you are a kraken after all. It's only fair to put the cranky lot in the penalty box.

[KrakenAttackin]

@DishLady Yeah, the "cooler" has become an old friend.

[DishLady]

❤️🐙❤️

[Anonymous]

Nope , I like my country too much.

[LiaRaven]

Which country

[Opinion Owner]

America

[LiaRaven]

Typical American lol

[Opinion Owner]

What’s that mean?

[LiaRaven]

I said it in a positive way

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay

[Twalli]

No, because I have no job opportunities there.

[LiaRaven]

How can you tell?

[Twalli]

Because my certifications are limited to the U. S.

[LiaRaven]

Gotcha

[nawtee_me]

I am thinking about it….

[LiaRaven]

Which country?

[nawtee_me]

I am in the U. S. and possibly Vietnam

[LiaRaven]

Why Vietnam?

[nawtee_me]

It is where she is from and what I make in one hour working here it takes them a day to make. I can take my retirement and move there and live like a king….

[Anonymous]

Nope. Not a chance!

[LiaRaven]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because I live in the greatest country in the world. Why would I go to HER country. That makes no sense. She should come to mine. And I'm not going to uproot my life for ANY woman. That's just the way it is. If she's not OK with that, clearly she's not that interested, and there are 4 billion other women in this world. Many of them in my own country.
It's highly unlikely I ever fall in love with a woman from another country anyways. So all of this is probably moot.

[LiaRaven]

Where do you live exactly?

[Opinion Owner]

The Midwest.

[QuietRunner]

probably will soon

[LiaRaven]

Which country?

[QuietRunner]

Japan

[Jennz6]

Yes I would but I haven’t yet

[In_Trance]

Never have never will

[MikeRJ]

If I loved her enough, sure.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yes (first) and no (second).

[Anonymous]

no and no lol

[Wise4myage]

Maybe?

[foxsquirrell]

Depends what country!

[eagle1951]

nope