Why are People So Interested about my Personal Life?

[Zozzita]

It’s like I can’t go a day without someone judging me about what I’m doing with my life. I’m the type of person who doesn’t know what they want to do career wise and I currently don’t have a job. I use to worry and stress about it all the time until I said enough is enough, now I’m just doing my own thing. I have too many problems of my own and the last thing I need is for people (who don’t really care about me) nosy their way into my personal life just to criticize me.

Nobody ever asks me if I need help with anything, they never ask about my mental health, they never offer me encouragement. All they do is nitpick at everything that I’m doing wrong (in their eyes). I’m only 24. It’s like the whole world expects you to know exactly want to do and know how everything works. It’s bullshit.

Gosh I’m going into a rant. Please, can someone give me good, encouraging advice. I really really don’t need any negativity right now. If anyone else is going through this too, please give me feedback.

And don’t say “grow up” “suck it up” cuz that shit is not gonna help at all. It’ll just make it worse.

[Changiis07]

People just like to have something to gossip about, if your intentions are good then it shouldn't matter to you what people are saying. You get up, count your blessings and think about everything that you do have. You have another day to live, you have water, food, eyes, feet, you can walk. The more we pay attention to other's the less happy we become. Enjoy the little things in life and do what makes YOU happy. Do the things that you love, hang out with people who encourage you and don't judge you. Be a good person to others. Spread love and see God work in your life. You can't control what people say about you, but you can control how you react to it. People will always have something to say about someone don't be like them. Be a bigger person, treat them with respect and move on. You do not have to associate yourself with negative people. Take care of yourself and put God in the center of your life

[Zozzita]

🥺Thank you!

[Pinay_ako]

Just work on yourself and zone out the haters. It’s your life, not theirs. Unless their opinions contribute to your well being, then it’s ok 👌. We also need others to help us look from their perspective what we can do to better ourselves right. Hugs for you and chin up. Your life is just beginning 💕

[hahahmm]

People can only talk to you because you let them... so when your aunt jane, cousin, old friend or even mom say something to you it's because you are listening. If they were dealing with someone they know doesn't listen then they're less likely to say something. That said, think long & hard before rejecting advice from people who already have what you want cause they probably know more about it than you do, regardless of how their advice makes you feel.

[supercutebutt]

I'm not, Zozzy. You do you. :)