Is it rude to ask how someone died?

[JustinTheGreat]

There’s a couple people I went to classes with who died so young and I’m really curious as to how but I don’t want to ask and be rude 😭

[RobT312]

Hmm…. I don’t think it’s wrong or rude to ask. If you ask in the right way, it could come off as concerned and caring

[Swede16]

I guess depends on how you ask and who you're asking (friends VS their mom). And timing.

Just be honest and upfront and say its being bothering you and you wonder what happened?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I would not get offended if anyone asked how my grandparents died, or anyone else. I haven’t heard of such a thing being rude.

[Topher87090]

Depends on the person. Honestly just ask. And if they get upset apologize and respect the boundaries

[NathanDavis]

that can be seen as morbid...

[TonightYouu]

Nope still waiting on my moms autopsy