Who dies this kind of thing to someone?

[tanderson6767]

OK guys and girls , My wife and I were having a heart-to-heart last night right I was telling her my feelings literally from literally from the deepest of my heart And none of it was bad was just about how I felt about her and what she had done in the past explaining to her you know what parts of it really hurt me.. I'm thinking That this might be a good time good time to let her know you know just so she knows and she does it again and cheats on me it's just gonna crush me again and it's gonna end our relationship which is the last thing I want. So right in the middle of telling her this she's responding seems like she's getting a little irritated but I mean I gotta let her know and I'm being nice about this After 2 text I sent her She sends me a text that says I'm going to sleep now. I keep in mind I wasn't insulting her I wasn't calling her names I was interested in any way whatsoever I was only talking about my feelings from my heart and how I wanted it did not happen again I keep in mind I wasn't insulting her I wasn't calling her names I was interested in any way whatsoever I was only talking about my feelings from my heart and how I wanted it did not happen again Because I love her not much and I want our marriage to work we've been married 26 years now so so my question is who or what kind of person does that they put sleep before you're feelings and she don't work tomorrow Please guys let me know what you think

[HelloImGoodThanks]

Sometimes we can say things we don't mean if we talk out of anger or if we are upset about something. Maybe your wife choosing sleep was her way of processing what you said and her way of not saying anything she will regret or might hurt you. It doesn't mean she wasn't listening and she wasn't caring about your feelings maybe she just genuinely knew if she has a conversation out of anger if she was anger she might have said things she didn't mean.

Onto you. If your wife has cheated on you and this is something that plays heavy on your mind, it might be best for you and your wife to do marriage counselling

[tanderson6767]

This is why I live this site... Thank You so very much for your time

[HelloImGoodThanks]

You're welcome. Just know cheating is disgusting and it's not mistake but if you truly want things to work with your wife. I strongly feel marriage counselling is the road you both you go down. Or maybe even some therapy on your own might help you with the way you are feeling

[bstayl]

Things can be misinterpreted over text. I think you should have this kind of conversation in person since it is deep.