Best friend ignoring me- should I just forget about her?

[Anonymous]

My best friend of many years just started ignoring me out of the blue. What would you do if this happened to you? It really hurts because I feel I haven't gotten an explanation and she was like my sister we were that close at one point. I reach out infrequently just to say hi because I know she's busy with stuff, but she now only sometimes texts me back. She never reaches out to me either.

Should I just forget the friendship and move on without explanation? Have you been through this? We were very close so it just hurts.

[xColinx]

You could delicately confront her about it... "hey I've noticed you seem a little more distant lately. (I hope I didn't do anything to offend you) or if there's anything you're going through I'm always here for ya"

That part in parentheses could go either way. It would just be a gesture of empathy, but you also don't necessarily need to imply any wrong doing on your part.

[Guy13]

Be the adult and ask her what is going on. After that she still behaves the same then do what you think is best.

[ginerhim]

Have you confronted her?

[Asker]

Hi no I haven't because I feel I might come across as clingy or needy, I was just giving her space.

[ginerhim]

I think you should confront her

[ginerhim]

If she doesn't give you the vibe you hoping to get, then you let her go

[Asker]

Thank you girl you've been helpful xx

[Asker]

I'll have a go and see what she says

[ginerhim]

Welcome hun

[bubblegunnn]

Donttt...
Just tell her what u feel tho