How many of you hate your mom and still haven't forgiven her for abuse even after moving out?

[Anonymous]

What did she do with your mental health, self identity and life purpose?

In my situation she is a huge control freak, nagging, comparing, never satisfied, too demanding but simultaneously that selfish witch is detached and aloof as fuck.

She will pretend to not understand anything you say, won't spend quality time with you even for 5 minutes and will dismiss you.

She always shouted, TRIED TO micromanage my life and was too sensitive when it came to catering to her needs but most of the time she will be emotionally unavailable and be totally detached like a stone for years.

She is a demon who will emotionally and psychologically manipulate to get what she wants but will abandon you most of the times when you're not needed.

Also you're at fault for whatever personal life mistake she makes.

[sunflower00]

I don’t hate my mum, but she has caused all sorts of food and body image problems (as well as other issues) for me. I haven’t brought it up to her as I don’t want to offend her or make her upset, but any time she speaks about body image, food, calories, dieting I tell her I don’t want to know and it’s all she speaks about

[Anonymous]

I have only talked to my parents once in the last 20 years. I don't even know where they live now, and I don't want to know. They abandoned me when I was 12 years old.

[Mynameisbobby]

My mother and my older sister messed me up really bad. My sister was 18 I was 13 she beat me everyday day just cuz I existed. My mother hated me because I am a boy and let my sister abuse me she said I deserved it. My sister is in prison and I hate her and my mother still!

[Anonymous]

I'm the eldest, always being a black sheep.. of the family..