How do men and women alike feel about child labor?

[Anonymous]

Well shit forgot sense I'm 18 I'm not a child but I couldn't find a better word I'm sorry. It's just I am being used, I'm doing things that aren't for me to do. I'm taking care of their baby cleaning their house packing their things for the move. I mean I have no home or place to go I was raised in an abusive household sense I was a child and I suffered mentally physically and sexually. I left well sorta got kicked out at the same time but still. And yeah I'm staying with some people I knew from 9th grade and sure I should be grateful and thankful their helping me giving me a place to stay. It's not that I'm not it's just I'm scared I just hate being alone my family made me feel more alone than ever growing up I finally have people who say they care I kinda feel like they care. It's just at home I had to clean take care of my sister's act as their mother cuz my mother didn't wanna I had to watch my parents hurt them and do nothing or take their punishment for them. I don't mind cleaning but I'm doing more than I should I think. It's what I've read about in books how people are treated I kinda mind but I don't mind with how I'm being treated. I just wanna know if i should be different if this is right or just your simple opinion so I can put it all together then decide for myself what I'll do next I guess. I am made to do everything anything goes wrong they get mad at me they talk about kicking me out but I do whatever they want so they won't because more than anything I just want to be wanted by someone. There just putting so much on me giving me responsibilities that are their own and I don't know what to do. I'm sorry if this is wrong, and I'd actually also like to know if I'm the one in the wrong sense they are giving me a roof but everything else I am barley able to get well with my own hands and hard work else where. I just feel like I'm the one being the asshole and complaining in other words, so I want advice I guess. If someone could answer I'll be thankful.

[Changiis07]

I'm sorry you suffered as a child. A lot of us suffer as kids differently but you shouldn't be afraid to be alone. It's a nice feeling but it comes with time, healing and loving yourself so that you won't deal with any crap that comes your way. Yes you have roof over your head but it also sounds like they are taking advantage. I say do what you can in the meantime since you have a place to live and eat. Try to save up some money and move out on your own and make friends with people who will encourage you. I suggest a christian church. I also suggest pray about anything that is feeling like a burden or is getting you down. The Lord listens and will deliver once you stay faithful to him and you put him first in everything

[CloudMassacre]

I’m against it. Like a kid sitting pulling weeds or some shit is okay, but like an actual work worker for a business, I’m against it

[Asker]

That's lovely and so heartwarming to hear, I feel like I may sound weird once you read my reply but it's true. Thank you for answering and I guess I'm not being put to work in a factor or for the use of men's pleasure anymore so that's a good thing, sorry I'm a very blunt persona and tend to say what comes to my mind but it's not like I'm hiding anything nor am I sharing anything to gain sympathy or pity just to gain answers to my questions in life and advice on how to move forward and better myself for the world to come.