How to relate to a father that gaslight you?

[Anonymous]

I dont live with him. But when I visit him, he ends "putting" me out of his house.

Because I "differ" in a view or opinion from him. He prefers to keep friends and neighbors close than his daughter. He says he's sorry, 4 hours later and then when I call him back he doesn't responds. He's what in psychology is called an ambivalent attachment figure. I already have gone to therapy to understand "where I came" from. My own family three.

Yet, again. A part of me is considering to just cut the tie. Not call more, just stop relating to him. I feel mistreated every time his inconsistency presents. Its very toxic.

[Guy13]

Grey stoning. Narcissistic traits with underlying sociopath leanings.

[Anonymous]

I think that's a great idea, because he does sound very toxic.