Can work give u a better social life?

[Monalisa77]

Honestly my mum is so negative, I've already made one sort of friend and she keeps saying i won't get a social life out of a job?

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Im in admin in a big office

[Anonymous]

no lol... my work is full of drama. and one coworker won't stop texting me all of her drama. it really impacts my mental health which is already shit in the first place.

so in other words, with work comes everyones problems and drama. especially in an office. so... protect yourself.

[Opinion Owner]

also keep in mind that people only go to work to get a paycheck, so don't take things too personally.

[Monalisa77]

u got me paranaoid there, i swapped nos with someone last week and she hasn't replied and i told her about this site but no chance she would know my username. im a bit of a gossip anyway so that doesn't bother me

[Monalisa77]

u ever thought she has bad mental health aswell? chatting passes the time, im only in 4 hours and sometimes there's no work to be done. there's more staff being braught in all the time, am i supposed to sit twiddling my thumbs?

[Adam1978]

Depends on the job. Certainly not the one I got. I have to do the social part on my free time.

[Anonymous]

Darling success & money gives you better social life's...

[Monalisa77]

I have money and it did nothing for it lol

[Opinion Owner]

Aw babe you feel lonely?

[roy_ricky09]

Your mother is kinda right.

[Monalisa77]

But I already sort of made one friend? how else am I supposed to get a sociaL life?

[roy_ricky09]

Well... Social life and making friends is different...
What you I guess you are looking for is more of a life outside the work.

[Monalisa77]

yep the guy i like offered to walk me to where my mum is (altho need to remind him tomorrow if he can still do it) and they do drinks n stuff at Christmas, my whole personality is coming out more and im learning more about life in general and gaining confidence

[roy_ricky09]

That's nice... Make more friends outside work. That's all.
And take out time for yourself

[AsaKyo]

Probably not