Will you shunned you're racist grandparents?

[Anonymous]

My grandparents both in their late 70's and still thinks she's living in the 1950's got all Karen mode because I am engaged to my fiance who is black. I told them I am anti racist and I will not tolerate racism. Both of my grandparents are stupid and close minded. Honestly I have met so many sweet black people and I will always be by my fiance side if it means cutting off my grandparents then I will shunned them. Racism is hate and I will not tolerate racism.

[TheMoralCrusader]

I don't have a problem with black people but you need to realize that they want what they want for you and they are your grandparents they are blood so to call them stupid and act this way is not good. You are putting someone else over family and that is something you will regret one day. It doesn't make anybody racist to not want someone in the family that they care about to date a certain person. Sure more than likely they don't like him because you are white and he is black but I don't know your background I mean maybe whatever your heritage is your grandparents simply want you with your own kind. Irish or Jewish etc whatever you are.

[Asker]

Yes apparently you are a racist. Okay if a woman doesn't support her man oh she's a horrible person she's taking advantage of her men. Now in my case defended my man she is a horrible person. I'm the bad guy on this one anyway. No I don't owe my grandparents anything! They hate my boyfriend only because he is black. Clearly you are a racist.

[Iron_Man]

They are already set in their ways No I wouldn’t blow them off

[dustybiker]

People are allowed their opinions. They are family. If they love you they are speaking one thing and feeling very much another. Most people have a way of coming around. Especially if who you are with treats you well. Most people have to prove themselves to family.

[Asker]

My fiance does treat me well. I will not tolerate them to disrespect my soon to be husband he comes first and always will be before anything. Just like you said they are allowed to express their own opinion I have mine as well and I say they are very ignorant people for claiming that each race should married their own. That's the stupidest thing I heard.