Would you still be friends?

[Anonymous]

Say you have these friends that used to make it a point or make u feel terrible about yourself. U smile it off because u think it makes u look unbothered but that’s not stopping their comments from effecting you. I’m 20 now I still hang with them and they have gotten slightly better about belittleing me but it still happens. I try to set boundaries that are firm but it just singles Me out more. People think I’m in the wrong for reacting to an annoying situation. I’m not mad but no one is talking to me. And they’re making plans to go out Without inviting me but I can still see. Im not upset at all I just don’t know how to move forward. What do I do? Should I just take my chance and leave the friend group. They have made me feel this way for years I just do

[Guy13]

Firstly, people who make it there business to both degrade and belittle you are not friends. These people get their jollies off hurting yourself and you should wholly remove yourself from them

My question for you are why do you maintain relationship with them?

[Mynameisbobby]

Yeah you need to get away from them immediately. I kinda did this when I was younger hoping others would like me I had low self esteem and just wanted a friend any friend. These people are not your friends.

[Anonymous]

You need to move on friends like that, because it does no good for your overall mental health to be hanging out with them.

[Anonymous]

You need to confront them for their shittiness then see if they like it