Is it just as controlling to be offended by bossy people as it is to be bossy?

[Bethany22]

Like, while most people probably don't like to be bossed around, some people would go so far as to post an angry Youtube video about someone that tried to boss them around. Even remembering to rant to friends about it seems a bit extreme.

[mickmrly]

It can be a bit controlling, or passive aggressive, to complain about bossy people. Some people are more confident and bossy than others and sometimes they can be too bossy. It’s best to try and work towards an acceptable arrangement rather than try and control bossier people and turn them into something they are not.

I have a more agreeable personality so I don’t usually get too offended by bossier people. I think there is a difference between someone who is bossy but nice and someone who is bossy and mean. If they are mean that is the main problem to be complaining about farther than the bossiness.

[Iron_Man]

If they are looking out for your best interest trying to help you that’s different. If they want to be a control freak take a stand defend yourself.

[Iron_Man]

Thanks for most helpful Award

[Sixgunsound]

I don’t pretend to understand the offense Olympics.

[Bethany22]

what's the offense olympics?

[Sixgunsound]

The supposed hierarchy of who is allowed to be more offended than who and by what. I figured that since you were asking a question about the topic that you knew what it was. On further review that’s not particularly fair because if you knew what it was you wouldn’t need to ask the question.

[NathanDavis]

that just sounds immature... lol

but, if they are YouTubers, I guess they just see it as "content" to post about... lol

[007kingifrit]

no not really the bossy person is still telling ohers what to do, the offended person is telling you what to do to THEM

unless they are offended on behalf of a 3rd party not related to the situation and then... yea they are bossy

[pizzalovershouse]

I haven't had people post bad things about I know personally

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I believe it can be

[Debbie14217]

yes it is

[eagle1951]

pretty much