Why is everything my fault?

[Anonymous]

Recently my friend stopped talking to me for a few days after I told her that my parents were splitting. Next thing she’s posting on her story that someone is annoying her, which I didn’t get because I didn’t do anything wrong. I was going to apologize when later I find out she blocked me. She also told my other friend to stop hanging out with me. What did I do wrong?

[HollyK21]

Unless there’s more to the story then you’re sharing then I’d say to ignore her. If it’s annoying to her that your parents are splitting then that’s absolutely not a good friend. If the girl she told to stop talking to you actually does it then she’s not a good friend either. You want people around you who can think for themselves and make their own decisions.

[Bethany22]

You didn't do anything wrong. Sounds like she has the dismissive avoidant attachment style, whereby she doesn't want to hear about other people's sad stories

[Asker]

I don’t get why she’s telling my friend to stop talking to me.

[Wise4myage]

That was not your fault, and she was never your friend to begin with.

[BackwoodsSage]

Nothing. You're better off not having asshole friends like her.