Is it my own fault?

I'm dealing with some unknown individual hacking into my social media accounts and threatening to leak private pictures and I have been dealing with this for a week and a half and i had barely told my partner about it. I've felt really alone and violated and i was trying to avoid feeling worse then I already do by not telling him cuz i already knew what his reaction would be and that's exactly what happened. I told him and he reacted the way I thought he would. I was told not do divulge the details to anybody cuz whoever it is is either someone close to me or someone whos good at accessing people's information. And because im doing what I was told im wrong and he's making it out to he something else. I should've been able to tell my partner from the start instead of having to deal with this alone. But instead cuz I had made the mistake of telling him I feel twice as alone and now there's conflict between my partner and i. I don't know what to do. Should i have not said anything and continued to deal with this alone. Someone tell me something
Is it my own fault?
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