How do you uninvited someone to your party?

[Anonymous]

I've invited my friend to my party, but I've realised that my best other friend who hates her (and she also hates) is going to be there. Is there a way of uninviting her and seeing her on a different day just the two of us? I don't want there to be any drama at my birthday.

[HollyK21]

If I were you I wouldn’t even worry about it. I’ve hosted events in the past where I know two friends didn’t like each other, but what does that have to do with me? 25-29 years old, you are all well into adulthood and it would be absolutely ridiculous for them to cause drama at your party. They’re both your friends, and the mature thing for them both to do is accept that, and keep out of each other’s way. Essentially making you choose one friend over the other in unacceptable and shouldn’t be ok for you.

[Biancam13]

You can't really without being rude. You could tell her that the girl she dislikes is going, so maybe she won't want to come anyway. But you can't uninvited her, that would be horrible

[Haaa135]

You can't uninvite someone. Maybe cancel the whole event, and then reschedule with just the people you truly want going

[WhitneySnow]

Just be straight up with her

[Iron_Man]

If you’ve already invited, it’s too late