Do you need to tell your other friends who you invited to a party?

[kitty71]

I mean you are the one who planned a friends get together because it has been months and months and months you dont see each other. You are also the one who chose the place and time. The issue here is that you invited 2 sets of group friends, even if all know each other, but among them they dont hang out, they hagn out separately. ANd now you organize a holiday activity to mingle and have a good time and catch up and your friends start asking you: Who did you invite?, Who confirmed? I mean do i have to tell anything? I mean why dont they just show up if they can assist and period. Or is it that depending who goes they go? That is not nice, why they want to complicate. Is like they will hold me responsible if some friends tey dont like will attend.

[XLBBC4White]

Also, it depends on the type of party. Not saying this is the norm but when it comes to swing parties the turn out depends on the male to female ratio as well as how many singles vs couples and it also can include the sizes of males in attendance. Size matters once again.

[kitty71]

It is just a female ladies night out

[jayhams]

It is perfectly reasonable for someone to not want to spent time with people they don't like. You want to force people to hangout for your own needs.

[Alex8736]

i wouldn't carry the burden of planning but instead just inform them where you will be and if they come they come and if not then they don't

[Emilyis]

most definitely, I have and always will.

[kitty71]

why do I need to tell them

[Emilyis]

so enemy's don't show up and start a fight and ruin your party.

[Chazmatazz269]

If they ask, tell. If they don’t, don’t bother.

[kitty71]

i invited like 8 ladies and all of them want to know who I invited and who had confirmed,. really? Why they just just show up period

[Chazmatazz269]

You might be hanging out with the wrong cats.

[kitty71]

I mean we all know each other we are not strangers, we all were ex classmates from high school from the same generation that even if we took separate ways after gradutating most of us had gathered before and we all know each other. I mean I dont know if some of them is not fond of anotehr oen beause that I dont know and that is not my problem., I just know that I do get along with everyone aand I was the one who plan the activity not them,. So what should I answer.

[Chazmatazz269]

If it were me and i’d already invested in the event, my response would be “You’ll have to come and see who else shows up.”.
If it’s a throwaway invite, i’d cancel them all.

[kitty71]

I thik it is because some want to know if a particular lady may be going that she is not fond of so she wotn go but why like 5 asked me the same thing. Why they all depend of shwoing up depending of who goes? I was the one who always with the initiative of plan something cause neither one of them never organize anything on their own Im always the one trying to set up things in order to see each other. That is the only way I hang out and go out, I dotn have any other people to han gout just them

[Chazmatazz269]

I assumed as much based on your description of the issue and my personal experience. That’s why my final response is what it was. Especially among grown folks, there’s absolutely no reason you can’t spend a few minutes at a party in which you adore the vast majority of attendees. If you can’t, you’re a petty, trifling twat; nothing more and nothing less.
I wouldn’t want to party with a bunch of petty, trifling twats. So i’d cancel. But i tend to operate on different terms than others.

[boobliker]

no not as long as they men

[pizzalovershouse]

If some dont like others might be best to

[eagle1951]

nope